Meg, if you want to be like the Joos and Roman pagans, and crucify Christ again, then attend the new mass, where Christ is blasphemed, mocked, etc. Or make allowances where others can go.
If you want to be like Our Lady, and St John, and the others at the foot of Calvary, then we don't take part in the sacrilege of the new mass, but we pray (and educate) those to stop hurting Our Lord and we console Him by attending the True Mass.
The english martyrs didn't go to the anglican heretical rite and they CERTAINLY wouldn't go to the new mass (which is far, far worse).