I don’t want to dissuade anyone from attending mass and receiving the sacraments. In any event, it is a truth that none of these mass centers technically satisfy our obligation to assist at Sunday mass.
That is where "God will judge" comes in. On the one hand, we can't compel the conscience of others to assist at any particular lifeboat. On the other hand, home-aloners who foolishly reject GOOD OPTIONS for Mass will have to answer for any fallout that results from their foolishness.
For example, there is a older man in my area (of Italian descent) whose grown daughter married a Novus Ordo man. She has several children, mostly girls. They were older kids, some of them almost teens. He convinced his daughter to take them to Mass at a Resistance chapel (the one I oversee) before Fr. Pfeiffer went off the deep end. Great priests, great sermons, great socialization with other Trads (including kids), and overall a great source of true Catholic influence. Later, when Fr. P went to war against the whole Resistance, this man stopped coming and so did his daughter. Now think about it: what influence will that daughter and her kids have now? 100% Novus Ordo plus a bit of pagan The World thrown in. Where are those children going to get ANY Catholic influence from now on? (Keep in mind Fr. P doesn't exactly come out this way EVER...)
How is that wise in any one's book? That man 100% made a foolish move, adhering to his cult leader Fr. P who basically considers himself the de-facto Pope, with de-facto primary jurisdiction over the whole world. He even goes so far as to tell his cult members to avoid Masses with anyone else, even those in the Resistance! Insanity. Pure insanity.
So yes, we are "free" to do what we want, but that's a double edged sword, like any right/responsibility combo. Whenever God gives you a responsibility (like raising children, saving your soul) He will judge you strictly on how you carried out that responsibility.
Your rights are given to you so that you can carry out your responsibilities.So yeah, you have this glorious right to do what you feel is right, but at the same time what a great responsibility it is! Knowing that God knows all, and will judge strictly and justly.
So heaven help you if pride, laziness, avarice, convenience, or any other base motive factored into "your decision" about where to attend Mass.