So I guess it would probably cost well more than a grand for a plane ticket, rental car, accommodations, just for one Mass. More than the few of families here that I know of so far could afford except maybe once or twice a year.
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You have to think like a frugal person.
Not everything has to be bought with money.
The plane ticket, maybe. But if anyone can host a priest in a guest room, etc. it will cost you nothing. Same for a car. Why not put him on the insurance of your second or third car? Many households have more than one car, even if the second car is old or worth very little.
If you can't outright give a car to your priest, you can at least provide him a car when he's in your area. That will save you a car rental.
If you upgrade your car, don't sell the old one to the car lot! That's SO "baby boomer"! You should keep the old one just for the heck of it. That way you have a car to lend out (including to yourself) when a car needs to be repaired.
The $1000 or $1500 the car lot is prepared to give you is NOT more valuable than having another working vehicle in the family.
That's what my wife's family does. They *never* sell a car. They drive each car until it's no longer viable. If they buy a new one, or end up with too many cars, they give one to a family member that could use it. That seems quite smart to me. We'll be doing that ourselves, once it applies to us :)
As for a Mass location, try to use an existing place. Clean out an entire room of your house, or your basement. Make it a huge, multi-family, multi-week project. See how thorough you can be! You'd be surprised what is possible with an open mind, some hard work, and effort.
And even the plane ticket can be cheaper, if you shop around. Buy it weeks or months in advance. Find someone with frequent flyer miles. Use Priceline. Be creative. Check Craigslist in your area to see if someone is trying to unload a plane ticket they can't use -- if you can hit one of those, you might get it for pennies on the dollar.