When you hear pro-lifers here in Ireland say 'gαy marriage is the law of the land' or are silent on the 2013 abortion legislation it is obvious they have accepted these social evils. Not a day goes by when people say same sex 'marriage' and abortion are separate debates. Instead of defending the faith, we are meant to 'debate'. Many appear frightened to declare themselves as Catholic. They create an impression they are embarrassed. Many wouldn't even share on social media. They believe if a campaign is perceived as religious it will alienate people.