Another little point a lot of you haven't thought about:
The year is 2021. The United States is 1 year into its Second Civil War. It doesn't matter who won the 2020 Presidential Election. You can guess what the two sides are (conservatives, those who follow God's design, plan, laws, and the Sons of Belial "without yoke" who want to create a new world without God, without His laws, etc.)
You will no doubt have to interact with people in your local area, right? To buy/trade for food, supplies, water, protection, etc.
You with me so far?
Don't you suppose some groups/leaders will be asking you "Who did you vote for in 2020?" Some will be most interested in knowing where you stand, and if you are part of the problem.
Not everyone will be 100% cool, calm, and rational about it either. In the book "A Canticle For Leibowitz" there is a global nuclear war, after which the survivors kill off everyone with any "book knowledge" -- those who, in their emotional opinion, helped bring about the disaster. All scientists, computer guys, professors, you name it. The survivors were completely emotional, over-reacting, and "human" in their response. This book was very realistic; the author must be very familiar with both history and human nature.
Expect high emotion, simple reasoning, and no-nonsense measures. Picture a gun to your head, while someone brings out a Bible and places your hand on it, as someone else asks you who you voted for in the 2020 Election.
Good luck explaining to them your "Catholic" principles that led you to vote for a third party. I wish you the best of luck that the Conservative general/leader/warlord/etc. will let you into his compound (I put Catholic in quotes, because there is NO Catholic principle that requires one to bash Trump or not vote for him. And yet you did!)
Or maybe you can lie to them! God will understand why you broke the 8th commandment... ...won't He? But what if the group quizzing you believes in God? They might ask you to swear on the Bible. After all, a leader needing to know if he can trust you or not in a collapse/war scenario WOULD BE SUFFICIENT CAUSE for groups to require individuals to make a solemn oath calling on God to witness to the truth of his words.
Or maybe you could try your luck with the Liberal side -- just tell them you didn't vote for Trump, and show them some of your old anti-Trump posts on Social Media! They'll welcome you in as one of their own. Good luck with trying to serve God in such a group, however. It will be like living in Sodom.
Or maybe you could continue to be "aloof from both sides", not living in any compound -- Good luck posting 24/7 guards taken from your small family. Yes, I said small family. I'm going to assume you have 12 children. Like I said, small family. Compared to an army, gang, or any organized group, any single family is SMALL. It's difficult to impossible to have proper security if you're just one family. How many men aged 13 or older will you have? You will eventually fall to the first gang that attacks your house looking for supplies.
Long story short: You need to pick a side. Lone-Wolfing it isn't going to cut it. I know, you're too unique, too special, too creative to fit into any "box". But maybe you need to get over yourself and pick a side. Those who want God/nation/law or those who want the devil/New World Order/communism.
You WILL have to choose. And there will only be two sides in the upcoming conflict. The expression "You're either with us or against us" comes to mind. In war, you are either "with us" or "with the enemy". Lone wolves are treated as enemy by default.