That is a question that has perplexed me. Then I began to wonder. Are they un-vaccinated? John (8) and Joseph (7) were both premature. I have Inthrahepatic Choleostasis (sp) any way you can learn about it at "itchymoms". And, so they had to be induced. Now there is talk about that causing problems with children as well as the epiderals that I received being linked to behaviour problems. Also, my husband and I wondered if when in Neonatal, they were given shots by the well meaning doctors. And, I do mean well meaning. They were three great people who took care of my children. Still, if they have it ingrained that these things are good and safe, and worried that these little babies are going out with no vaccines in their future why not issue them while under their care. It is possible. But, no I really think it comes from early birth, induction, epiderals.
Now, my only child who scored a perfect Apgar score at birth is Thomas (11). He has Cerebral Palsey. Why? I do not know. I can drive myself crazy wondering, blaming myself. We took him into Chicago for testing. The tests could not find one reason for my son to suffer with this. Then, my sister Dana said, maybe God asked him in the womb to be a victim soul, to suffer for Christ and Tom said yes. That is a beautiful thought.
If I sit and think of my life all at once (I have Multiple Sclerosis), it overwhelms me. What with homeschool and lack of money and taking care of my 93 year old Grandmother (Do you know what an honor it is that God let her live this long for me to have her by me?). So, I say to God, you know each of my children, you know me (flawed beyond belief) I trust you to steer this rickety ship of ours safely.
I am also blessed in my husband. He is not the type to "get involved in schooling." However, he supports me and is a very steady man to my choleric-melancholic moods.
Happy, you bet I am.
Anyway, Mater I hope I answered your questions.