The programs might sound complicated at first, but in my experience, CHM has been easy to work with.
I don't know you very well, but you have a reasonable, intelligent, thoughtful, and moral husband (Assumes facts not in evidence?

) and that goes a long way to making your approach successful. Reasonable expectations and reasonable precautions.
Who here imagines that is the norm in the "outside" world? I certainly don't. It is not the norm.