I was with my wife in process of doing IVF.
I did know that Church was against it, and searched for more information. At that time I was in Novus ordo, didn't know anything about Traditional Catholic movement and all else. I learned what they do, asked doctors and I decided not to do it even if I never had children in my life. Problem was with my health, everyone I knew was against me. Some time even my wife but God willing she realized evil truth about it and stood with me in this.
All good willed family members, conservative Novus ordo catholics, were trying to convice us that is good, and ultimately God decides, or whatever.
They knew someone else they know already did it, and it was good enough. Nevermind that even mainstream hierarchy was against it, just like in case of abortion.
They just go on Sunday mass, and believe according to their conscience, not according what the Church teaches.
So much double standards, I was revolted and thank God I didn't lose faith and become an atheist.
And God rewarded us with a beautiful little Laura, now 8 months old, after 8 years of our marriage.
All glory to one true God, Holy Trinity, Our Lady, and all the saints!
IVF is part of culture of death, like abortus and euthanasia. It also makes people believe that they are authors of life and death, and that one life justifies deaths of another. Life begins with conception, that means that all those discarded embrios are killed.