Neil,
In regards to your question about how to use the Brune, I think I'd skip it in the cake altogether. I'm not familiar with it, personally, but I looked it up online, and read the ingredients list. The fact of its high fat content and that it's marketed as a candy coating makes me inclined to think it would change the texture and moistness of the cake a LOT. It states on one web page that it "hardens quickly". Probably not the best choice for a cake mix! I've used melted tallow (a hard beef fat) in my cakes before, and it just makes them dry. And cocoa butter is pretty much a really, really hard fat. Have you ever used it in cooking before? So my guess would be to use it in the frosting somehow. Probably just thin it down with cream and add sugar to taste.