You wrote: "There is something called a Hy-gene Seminal Fluid Collection Kit that allows the semen to be collected during the marital act in a way that is not immoral."
I wrote: "The solution you are proposing is nothing but a condom, and therefore immoral.
http://www.apexfertility.com/hygene1.htm "
You wrote: "They are perforated condoms, do not violate Catholic morality, and are acceptable to many traditional priests familiar with Catholic-friendly methods of infertility treatment. I am sure there are other brands available, this is the one that I am familiar with."
I wrote: "No, they are not. You are mistaken. "The handling of the condom is done only by the patient. A small scissor slice is made at the reservoir end of the condom. The patient then empties the contents through the system's funnel into the transport vial. The vial is sealed with a tight-fitting cap, and the funnel and condom are discarded." and even clearer
http://www.aia-zavos.com/semen_collection.html "8. Holding reservoir end of condom over funnel, use scissors to cut a small slice in tip. Carefully squeeze all possible semen from condom (see diagram on Hygene™ box)."
You wrote: "Having actually used perforated condoms after seeking advice from a traditional priest, no I am NOT mistaken."
As clearly indicated in the instructions, the implement which you are recommending is a condom, perforated after use in order to collect the fluid. It is immoral. You were mistaken in writing that these are perforated condoms.
Stay away from this thread. No Catholic male here is interested in your input or in the kind of condoms your husband uses.