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Offline poche

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« on: June 03, 2013, 03:01:43 AM »
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  • The mother whose story inspired the hit movie “The Blindside” has taken on a new television series to assist families in navigating the process of adoption.

    http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/blindside-mom-launching-show-to-help-adoptive-families/


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    « Reply #1 on: June 10, 2013, 04:59:29 PM »
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  • Why would someone "down" thumb this?  I think adoption is a good thing.

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    « Reply #2 on: June 10, 2013, 05:13:27 PM »
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    The mother whose story inspired the hit movie “The Blindside” has taken on a new television series to assist families in navigating the process of adoption.

    http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/blindside-mom-launching-show-to-help-adoptive-families/


    Poche, if you must keep posting links to stories that you find interesting, why not copy and paste the story?


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    New York City, N.Y., Jun 2, 2013 / 04:07 pm (CNA).- The mother whose story inspired the hit movie “The Blindside” has taken on a new television series to assist families in navigating the process of adoption.
     
    “We are taking one family at a time and we are trying to make a difference,” said Leigh Anne Tuohy, adoptive mother of Super Bowl champion and offensive tackle for the Baltimore Ravens, Michael Oher.
     
    Ever since her family’s real life story of taking in – and eventually adopting – a teen from the streets has captured the public’s attention, Tuohy said members of the family have been offered spots on numerous shows, from “The Amazing Race” to “Undercover Boss.”
     
    “We’ve turned them all down because that’s just not who we are,” she said in a recent press call.
     
    However, Tuohy recently decided to get involved with UP’s “Family Addition” because “it just enhances our platform and our message” that “every child is valuable” and “every kid in every country of this world is valuable and worth having a forever family.”
     
    Premiering June 7 on the cable television network UP, “Family Addition” will feature a different family each episode that is facing the challenges that come with adopting children.
     
    From reorganizing homes to navigating the “maze of red tape” that is the adoption process, Tuohy wants to help parents all over the United States who are making the transition of bringing in new family members.
     
    So far, the show has only filmed six episodes, but Tuohy said she hopes the network will pick up more so that they can help other families and “bring awareness” to how difficult the adoption process is in the United States.
     
    Drawing the public’s attention to the situation will “hopefully help change some of the laws” and “at the same time make sure that every single child gets a chance,” she explained.
     
    “We’re very simple people and God has picked us to tell a message,” she said.
     
    “That is why we’re putting ourselves out there; because we want to make sure that people realize there are valuable kids in every city in the United States of America and all they need is a chance.”
     
    While the process of adopting is “very difficult,” she said, so is “everything in life that’s worthwhile.”
     
    “Stop thinking it’s the ‘Pollyanna’ perfect situation,” she advised. “We want people to know that it’s difficult, but all good things in life worth working for are difficult.”
     
    Even if viewers are not looking to adopt children, Tuohy said they can still learn how to help adoptive families.
     
    For example, one family on the show – the Jacksons from Los Angeles – adopted seven siblings in addition to their own biological kids. As a result, even the simplest household chore like laundry is a huge undertaking.
     
    “You can show up and help somebody fold clothes,” Tuohy said. “You can make a difference and we want to make sure people are aware of the options.”
     
    Ultimately, Tuohy said she hopes the show will drive home the message that “there are no unwanted kids; just unfound families.”
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    « Reply #3 on: June 10, 2013, 05:34:24 PM »
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    Why would someone "down" thumb this?  I think adoption is a good thing.

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    Well I got one also so there is some lurker out there who hates kids.  Poor thing.

    Marsha

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    « Reply #4 on: June 10, 2013, 08:00:40 PM »
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  • Very cowardly to downthumb such a topic without an explanation.  Cowardice is an ugly vice.


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    « Reply #5 on: June 10, 2013, 08:38:01 PM »
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  • I'm not sure adoption is an appropriate topic for this subforum (Health and Nutrition).  

    I do think adopting children as your own and raising them in the one True Faith is a beautiful thing.  
    The good shepherd giveth his life for his sheep.  But the hireling, and he that is not the shepherd, whose own the sheep are not, seeth the wolf coming, and leaveth the sheep, and flieth, and the wolf catcheth, and scattereth the sheep.  A

    Offline Tiffany

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    « Reply #6 on: June 10, 2013, 08:48:51 PM »
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  • Quote from: poche
    The mother whose story inspired the hit movie “The Blindside” has taken on a new television series to assist families in navigating the process of adoption.

    http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/blindside-mom-launching-show-to-help-adoptive-families/


    More The Hills Are Alive! Adopt a troubled teen and they will turnout a sports star!  Maybe they can show the real story when the parents get to know their sheriff, CPS, teen psych unit, face court for allegations of child abuse, rehab center, probation officer, and worse.


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    « Reply #7 on: June 11, 2013, 02:17:37 AM »
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  • I personally know 6 families who have adopted at least 2 children, some of the kids are of the same race as the adoptive parents some are not, some are handicapped kids some are not, all of the families have had hurdles in their lives, but none of the families have had any horror stories to share.

    I do not know of anyone who thinks adoption is an easy route, just one that is worthwhile taking.

    Marsha


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    « Reply #8 on: June 11, 2013, 02:40:00 AM »
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    I personally know 6 families who have adopted at least 2 children, some of the kids are of the same race as the adoptive parents some are not, some are handicapped kids some are not, all of the families have had hurdles in their lives, but none of the families have had any horror stories to share.

    I do not know of anyone who thinks adoption is an easy route, just one that is worthwhile taking.

    Marsha


    Where they adopted as teenagers from the state's foster care system?

    My issue is with how adopting a teenager from foster care is being presented. I  believe we need to consider how corrupt CPS is (natural parents/relatives are denied due process & the poor are targeted) or in a private infant adoption make sure the mother is not being pressured/try to help her if she wants to parent but I'm not saying people should not adopt.

    Secondly to give the story of the family with children who adopted many more?  For many of these teens it's best if those with an empty nest adopt them. Even in case where they had an empty nest, they need to be careful with having them around their grandchildren.

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    « Reply #9 on: June 11, 2013, 03:54:01 AM »
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  • Quote from: ShepherdofSheep
    I'm not sure adoption is an appropriate topic for this subforum (Health and Nutrition).  

    I do think adopting children as your own and raising them in the one True Faith is a beautiful thing.  


    It's not  fairytale. If you adopt a child  outside of your family it means they have been or will be separated from their natural mother and possibly their natural extended family and father. For whatever the reason and no matter what stage it happened, it's a trauma.

    Any child that come into our home should of course be raised Catholic.



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    « Reply #10 on: June 11, 2013, 08:51:43 AM »
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  • Quote from: Tiffany
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    I'm not sure adoption is an appropriate topic for this subforum (Health and Nutrition).  

    I do think adopting children as your own and raising them in the one True Faith is a beautiful thing.  


    It's not  fairytale. If you adopt a child  outside of your family it means they have been or will be separated from their natural mother and possibly their natural extended family and father. For whatever the reason and no matter what stage it happened, it's a trauma.

    Any child that come into our home should of course be raised Catholic.


    Oh, I quite understand that.  But better for a child to grow up in a natural family environment and raised Catholic than be adopted and raised in a secular environment.  
    The good shepherd giveth his life for his sheep.  But the hireling, and he that is not the shepherd, whose own the sheep are not, seeth the wolf coming, and leaveth the sheep, and flieth, and the wolf catcheth, and scattereth the sheep.  A