Both my personality and looks are above average. Problem is women never find out about my personality because they act like I don't exist. The point is, it shouldn't be this hard to find a Catholic wife. There should be so many marriageable Catholic women that I'm tripping over them, but instead it's a barren wasteland. You can accuse me all day of not being good enough or not measuring up to their lofty expectations, but there should still be someone out there for everyone, and I can't find anyone.
There a lot of ‘should’ statements here...
Christians have always had the struggle of finding a good spouse. Christians have always struggled period. It is far from a Catholic attitude to get our noses out of joint over what ‘should’ happen- the Catholic attitude is to be obedient and submissive to the Holy Will of God in all things.
Also “it shouldn’t be this hard to find a wife” is a bit concerning. Every woman wants to feel and know that she is the diamond you’ve been digging for, not just the one who finally started paying attention to you and you didn’t find her totally disagreeable to have around...
If any ol’ gal will do then why would she want your attention? Every girl has heard tales of being wooed by a great looking gentlemen only to marry him and find he only wanted a housewife to keep house and cook while being perpetually pregnant. The romance stopped, there was no partnership or depth to the relationship. I can assure you that if you give off any airs of entitlement to her time she’ll swiftly run the other way.
You posted a rather vulnerable question to strangers on the internet, I can understand your defensiveness. However, we are answering with our opinions and experience based off of your word choices.
If you’re not interested in our answers beyond “poor you, here is my sister’s phone number...” then we can’t help you much here. Or you’re a troll :-\
As to the gluttony thing- you do realize childbirth changes a woman’s physiology? Age? Medication side effects? Good grief, then there is the fact that our Good Lord made different body types in general... ???