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Offline copticruiser

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what is going on? (possible miscarriage)
« on: January 15, 2016, 07:39:59 PM »
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  • Going through a difficult time this past year (medical issues, family past, ever growing family, financial worries,  state of the church etc)

    So we get the news that we are expecting #8 all my babies are so wonderfully cute we are open to life and enjoy all our current 7 children.

    Then last tuesday I started to bleed a bit which never happens. Well one time it did but 48hrs later (4yrs ago) it had resulted in a dangerous hemoraging misscarriage.

    So here we are Friday and Thursday I was in a bad argument and started to bleed worse and all day today. Im a bit nervous and not sure what to expect.

    Blood test concluded my hormone levels are rising which indicates a healthy pregnancy? So walking on pins and needles at the moment.

    Very strange I was not ready emotionally for a baby, went thru 3wks of awful nausea, now at risk of miscarriage and my blood test shows a healthy pregnancy????

    So very confused at the whole thing. Just thought Id ask for some prayers while waiting on all of this to sort itself out.

    Every night Im at a higher risk as their is a ferry that crosses a large lake to reach our side of the community but that ferry shuts down at 11pm doesnt reopen till 5am. So cannot get access to a hospital in good time.

    Lots of worry I guess just thought Id share thanks for your listening.

    Your friendly canadian :farmer:


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    what is going on? (possible miscarriage)
    « Reply #1 on: January 15, 2016, 07:56:10 PM »
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  • Lord have mercy.

    Do not drink fluoridated tap water, and do not eat any processed or non-organic foods.

    When I was having morning sickness, I ate a lot of Lungren's Organic Brown Rice Cakes, as they helped stop the nausea.
    Lord have mercy.


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    what is going on? (possible miscarriage)
    « Reply #2 on: January 15, 2016, 11:22:01 PM »
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  • I will pray for you
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    what is going on? (possible miscarriage)
    « Reply #3 on: January 16, 2016, 02:42:04 AM »
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  • Although bleeding can be a sign of impending miscarriage, about 30% of all pregnant woman suffer some degree of bleeding during pregnancy, some with quite severe bleeds, without losing the baby. No studies have shown an increase in infant abnormalities after bleeding in early pregnancy. I will pray for you in your troubles, CopticCruiser.
    Help of Christians, guard our land from assault or inward stain,
    Let it be what God has planned, His new Eden where You reign.

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    what is going on? (possible miscarriage)
    « Reply #4 on: January 16, 2016, 04:11:13 PM »
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  • My continuing prayers.

    Lord have mercy on mother and child.

    Any updates?
    Lord have mercy.


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    what is going on? (possible miscarriage)
    « Reply #5 on: January 19, 2016, 02:04:22 AM »
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  • Thanks for your prayers I miscarried tonight off to see the doctor in the morning and go on a date with my 7yr old which I never do.

    Not sure what this all meant but have faith that their is a family member or two in heaven praying for our family as we desperately need it.

    I hope baptism of desire is legit. In the end it is God who decides who has proven himself countless times full of Love and mercy to those who love him.

    We had a JOB year. I definetly feel compassion for Job and those of us who go through trials.
    We are not out of the woods yet as we have family issues still popping up and harassing our family life, farm life, spiritual life.
    Hoping with the help of sspx, your prayers, and trusted friends we can get through this time.

    So far dealt with a popped femer in my 3yr old, near death with my husband, a mistake at the emergency which left my husband after a night of hemoraggin on the streets of downtown Vancouver alone (discharged too early after invasive sinus operation which was slowly killing him for 2yrs.
    Had a 2ft metal stake hit my 9yr old daughter in the face luckily she has a slight scar to the side of her nose and not a missing eye!
    Head injury my son sustained 13yrs old.
    1yr old did a head dive onto cement when the car door opened luckily mom had good reflex action grabbed her ankle and she had a few scrapes.
    My daughters near perfect gorgeous young well trained horse died of colic unexpectedly.
    I had an unexpected pregnancy was sick now tonight a miscarriage and my husband is suffering for 3wks now from painful shingles on the head and into the eye.

    Starting to kinda believe in SPRITUAL WARFARE.

    Oh and lost a good percentage of our investments in oil due to distractions and not being able to focus on the markets while there was 7 kids to maintain, school, farm animals, large garden, and a moose.

    If it don't KILL YA it will MAKE YOU STRONGER!!!

    Yikes from your friendly canadian :farmer:

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    « Reply #6 on: January 19, 2016, 02:51:58 AM »
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  • Oh one more request
    Can anyone help me understand how Holy Catholic Families are Made.
    I don't think they are simply born into it?

    Im sure Rosary, Sacraments are huge helps but there must be something more Ive seen parts of it in certain Protestant families over the years.

    A soft and lovely Joy and Shining Goodness.

    yeah that's what I want in My Family Life.

    Thanks again Your friendly canadian :farmer:

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    « Reply #7 on: January 19, 2016, 03:48:16 AM »
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  • Dear Coptic Cruiser, I am so sorry to hear of your woes, especially your most recent loss of your little one. It is easy for me to say but you know too, that God knows what is best for each of us.

    Remember what the great St Teresa said to God once: The way You treat Your friends, it's no wonder You've got so few of them! But of course, she knew that sufferings were really a gift from God to keep her close to Him.

    Please don't compare yourself/ves unfavourably with those protestants. They must have their problems that you don't see, and besides they don't have the graces available to them that you have. Just continue faithfully and humbly your role as wife and mother, educating your children in the Faith without too much anxiety and leave the rest up to God. My dear Mother used always say: Do your best and leave the rest. I always found that reassuring.

    God bless you  :pray:
    Help of Christians, guard our land from assault or inward stain,
    Let it be what God has planned, His new Eden where You reign.


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    « Reply #8 on: January 19, 2016, 05:05:51 AM »
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  • The best way to have a holy family is when the parents practice the faith and teach their children to practice the faith; mass every Sunday daily prayer. Does the three year old know how to make the sign of the cross? Does he know the Our Father, Hail Mary, and the Glory Be? These are prayers that should be said every day.  

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    « Reply #9 on: January 19, 2016, 03:01:53 PM »
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  • Look at the family Christ had.  That is, His apostles.  Of the 12, one in despair and hung himself.  Peter who denied Christ 3 times and then Christ actually said to Peter "Get behind me, Satan".

    God never promised us a rose garden.  Sometimes we think maybe to ourselves, that "if we do this, or we do that, the end result will be=".

    I wish it was like that.  We can have a prodigal son or daughter.

    We are compared to sheep and I think farmers consider them to be the dumbest.  They need a dog to show them the gate.

    St. Monica had her tears.  

    We need to know that our needs are always with the Precious Blood/sacraments and sacramentals. That is a Joy!

    If anyone does wrong, they know where the Power is.  We are all given Free Will. Yes, it is sad when things go hairy!  But always remind the children that there is a God.  He sees and hears all.  Be sure to tell your children if they are in sin.

    I knew a mother who said she would not think to tell her children, "What you are doing is sinful".  I asked her why?  Christ was known to say "God and sin no more."
    She took time and found that Sin was used over a 150 times in the bible.

    Our job as parents is to save souls.  When we meet our Maker, we can face Him saying, "I did my job and was not neglectful in teaching the truth.

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    « Reply #10 on: January 19, 2016, 03:03:33 PM »
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  • "Go and sin no more". Excuse me.


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    « Reply #11 on: January 19, 2016, 03:19:11 PM »
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  • Quote from: copticruiser
    Thanks for your prayers I miscarried tonight off to see the doctor in the morning and go on a date with my 7yr old which I never do.

    Not sure what this all meant but have faith that their is a family member or two in heaven praying for our family as we desperately need it.

    I hope baptism of desire is legit. In the end it is God who decides who has proven himself countless times full of Love and mercy to those who love him.

    We had a JOB year. I definetly feel compassion for Job and those of us who go through trials.
    We are not out of the woods yet as we have family issues still popping up and harassing our family life, farm life, spiritual life.
    Hoping with the help of sspx, your prayers, and trusted friends we can get through this time.

    So far dealt with a popped femer in my 3yr old, near death with my husband, a mistake at the emergency which left my husband after a night of hemoraggin on the streets of downtown Vancouver alone (discharged too early after invasive sinus operation which was slowly killing him for 2yrs.
    Had a 2ft metal stake hit my 9yr old daughter in the face luckily she has a slight scar to the side of her nose and not a missing eye!
    Head injury my son sustained 13yrs old.
    1yr old did a head dive onto cement when the car door opened luckily mom had good reflex action grabbed her ankle and she had a few scrapes.
    My daughters near perfect gorgeous young well trained horse died of colic unexpectedly.
    I had an unexpected pregnancy was sick now tonight a miscarriage and my husband is suffering for 3wks now from painful shingles on the head and into the eye.

    Starting to kinda believe in SPRITUAL WARFARE.

    Oh and lost a good percentage of our investments in oil due to distractions and not being able to focus on the markets while there was 7 kids to maintain, school, farm animals, large garden, and a moose.

    If it don't KILL YA it will MAKE YOU STRONGER!!!

    Yikes from your friendly canadian :farmer:


    Through the prayers of the Most Holy Virgin Mary and of all the saints, O Christ our God, have mercy and save this precious family.
    Lord have mercy.

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    « Reply #12 on: January 19, 2016, 08:23:19 PM »
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  •  :pray:
    "Louvada Siesa O' Sanctisimo Sacramento!"~warcry of the Amakusa/Shimabara rebels

    "We must risk something for God!"~Hernan Cortes


    TEJANO AND PROUD!

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    « Reply #13 on: January 20, 2016, 04:50:06 PM »
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  • What do you mean by "I had an unexpected pregnancy"?

    You said you were open to life in the OP.

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    « Reply #14 on: January 20, 2016, 05:29:03 PM »
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  • Quote from: Disputaciones
    What do you mean by "I had an unexpected pregnancy"?

    You said you were open to life in the OP.


    Perhaps it had been years since she last had a baby?  Perhaps she is older?

    I am 49.  If I got pregnant, that would be pretty darn unexpected.

    For there shall arise false Christs and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders, insomuch as to deceive (if possible) even the elect. (Matthew 24:24)