Look at SpiritusSanctus- he's in a similar predicament- but I'm sure he has a priest he can call if he had a serious spiritual concern.
You're right actually, I have two Traditional priests I can contact if I ever need to.
After listening to Br. Peter and Michael Dimon (MHFM), I have learned to pretty much trust no priest or formal organization including the CMRI nor the SSPX. I'll be honest if it wasn't for MHFM, I probably would still be in the bogus ordo indult mass, so I owe them a lot and I take their opinions seriously.
Something that really bothers me is this conept called "invincible igonrance" which according to the Dimonds is a complete farce and heresey. So when organizations like the SSPX and the CMRI publically support this "invincible ignorance" idea it really bothers me, and they loose credibility with me. Invincible ignorance goes against what Christ taught in the gospels. "Go out and teach all nations." Why would Christ send the great commission if the heathens were ok in their paganism??
CuriousCatholic, the Dimond Brothers do have good information on their website, but I don't recommend you listen to their beliefs of not trusting any priest from any other group. The Dimond Brothers, first of all, label nearly everyone a heretic. According to them, the SSPX, CMRI, FSSP, SSPV, etc. are all heretics. They say you can't even give money to them or else you're a heretic. You must admit, that's way overboard.
I can't speak for the CMRI, but I think you're basing your opinion on the SSPX too much on Bishop Fellay. He only makes up some of the Society, not all of it. There's plenty of people in the Society (like Bishop Williamson, for instance) who don't support invincible ignorance.
There is nothing wrong with you asking questions, but s2srea has a point- you'll need to seek advice from someone at some point. Are you the only Traditional Catholic in your family? Whenever there's something I'm unsure of about the Faith or something I usually just ask my mother, who taught me alot of what I know today. Or I can contact a Traditional priest. It's silly not to trust Traditional priests when you need help with something, yeah not all of them are trustworthy but most of them are.