I do read the answers. But that does not mean I fully understand them, thus I ask clarifying questions.
My mother and father were not catholic, so I had no idea that my middle name was a saint name, and I do not think it was my mothers intent to give me a saints name.
My wife was the one who was raising our children in the faith, and yes, she did and does follow the sacraments.
Remember that I am new to the faith, I ask a lot of questions that may seem like no brainers to many of you, and therefore would appreciate viewing me through the prism of teaching a child.