Look, Christ was raised by a single mother for much of His life, so that is not what anyone is saying, that it can NEVER work. But mothers who have feminist attitudes and think they can do better without a man could not be farther from the spirit of the Virgin Mary.
I think St.Joseph was around throughout the time Our Lord was growing up, so I disagree that Christ was an exception. We know he was not absent any time before he and Our Lady sought Christ in the temple while they were in Jerusalem, and Our Lord was 12 years old then. In my opinion he did not pass away any earlier than 8 years after, when Our Lord would have nearly finished growing up. God wanted Our Lord's human nature to undergo the natural formation that any young man would have, but in a perfect way as He intended it to be before the fall, and that would require St.Joseph to be present for His instruction and guidance in His childhood years.