our 18 yo disabled daughter who has been a Traditional Catholic is being taken away from us by some of our adult children and a local mental health group. Our daughter was the victim of a police raid on our son..while she was disabled at 16 when this happened she was nowhere near the way she is now. She tried to runaway from home 6 times from1/3/2017 til last week each time being picked up by police and brought to local Behavior Science Unit. She has Toruettes syndrome and has been homeschooled all along as well and done very well. Some of our adult children do not agree with the fact we are Trads and homeschool.
Axes needed to be ground as to how we hurt her and traumatized her...one such (example) was our son who married a divorced protestant woman. He is leading the charge on this. He asked us if she could be a member of the wedding party as a flower girl in the Methodist church we told him no...he has never forgiven us for this...the woman working with our family from the BSU a lapsed Catholic..telling me I was wrong that I traumatized her by doing that. My pastor told me she couln not participate. We are open to suggestions as we are told even telling her no to anything is traumatizing her. We are ready to just say you know what...you raise her. SHe is our youngest ..of 11 chlidren. We are in our 60's. Any suggestions.
It sounds like the woman from the BSU (?) is accusing you of causing the Tourette's syndrome by telling your daughter she shouldn't participate in false worship (which is objectively a true statement).
Maybe it would help to collect some statements from experts in Tourette's that conflict with this strange accusation. Any traditional Catholics who are psychologists or medical doctors might be a source for references for you.
Perhaps if we all ask our friends about this someone might have an idea for you. It sounds really creepy. I have some friends who have relatives that married Lutherans and other Protestants, and they have all had stories of how the Protestant spouse has relentlessly steered the Catholic into doing things like this against Catholic family members. So it's not unusual, unfortunately.
Ironically, it is the son marrying the "divorced Protestant woman" who is worthy of severe criticism, as he is committing adultery every day by living with a woman who is married to someone else (divorce is not valid). Nuts.