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Offline Viva Cristo Rey

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« on: October 08, 2012, 08:38:05 PM »
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  • Anyone know a young girl who might want to give her baby up to a loving traditional Catholic Home???

    There are tons of pro life sites but hardly any sites telling you how to adopt any of these babies.  

    May God bless you and keep you


    Offline Viva Cristo Rey

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    « Reply #1 on: October 08, 2012, 08:40:15 PM »
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  • Is there any young traditional catholic children who are orphans and need parents?  
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    Offline Loriann

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    « Reply #2 on: October 08, 2012, 09:27:53 PM »
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  • Quote from: Viva Cristo Rey
    Anyone know a young girl who might want to give her baby up to a loving traditional Catholic Home???

    There are tons of pro life sites but hardly any sites telling you how to adopt any of these babies.  



    CAll Catholic Charities.  They are great for assisting with Catholic family adoptions.
    I am not alone, for the father is with me.

    Offline Viva Cristo Rey

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    « Reply #3 on: October 09, 2012, 01:28:59 AM »
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  • Will they give me a hard time for being a traditional catholic not under local diocesan vatican II bishop?
    Within the local diocese I have a reputation for being "instigator" when we were fighting the catholic church and school closures and now they know I am
    a traditional catholic because despite the 2009 excommunications that were lifted, I have been called a schismatic , heretic renegade and this was by my friends who are in novus ordo...

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    « Reply #4 on: October 09, 2012, 01:30:46 AM »
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  • Thank you.  We appreciate your help.  I guess it can't hurt to try catholic charities.
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    « Reply #5 on: October 09, 2012, 02:23:38 AM »
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  • Viva, if you contact this org. and they ask you your religion, you are Catholic. There is no requirement to tell them you are traditional. "Traditional Catholic" is tautology.

    Besides your reputation might not have spread so far.

    It would be wonderful if you could give a loving home to one of these little ones. Please God, you will succeed.
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    Let it be what God has planned, His new Eden where You reign.

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    « Reply #6 on: October 09, 2012, 05:38:35 AM »
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  • It is vey difficult because abortion is "easy"
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    I feel sad when i think of it.

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    « Reply #7 on: October 09, 2012, 06:00:24 AM »
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  • Quote from: Viva Cristo Rey
    Anyone know a young girl who might want to give her baby up to a loving traditional Catholic Home???

    There are tons of pro life sites but hardly any sites telling you how to adopt any of these babies.  



    There is nothing wrong letting it known you are looking to adopt.  For the second sentence, who are these babies? We should not expect women who need teaching on the sin of abortion to relinquish their babies. Catholics have a terrible history as far as pressuring women to relinquish their babies.  


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    « Reply #8 on: October 09, 2012, 07:50:39 AM »
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    Thank you.  We appreciate your help.  I guess it can't hurt to try catholic charities.


    I don't know the answer to the TRAD thing.  I would guess they can't discriminate due to religious preference, though they can try to match religions for older children.  Many toddlers are left unadopted here because everyone wants a baby.  I pray you find and help some children.  
    I am not alone, for the father is with me.

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    « Reply #9 on: October 09, 2012, 07:55:49 AM »
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  • Quote from: Viva Cristo Rey
    Anyone know a young girl who might want to give her baby up to a loving traditional Catholic Home???

    There are tons of pro life sites but hardly any sites telling you how to adopt any of these babies.  



    She might want to look into open adoptions vs closed, so she could pick the couple and vice versa.....yrs ago, we tried this......long story short, we did not adopt, God's will, but many do and this is somewhat more preferable......another option might be within the Church, ie, pastor might know of someone to match her to...or a network....
    Proud "European American" and prouder, still, Catholic

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    « Reply #10 on: October 09, 2012, 09:47:22 AM »
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    Anyone know a young girl who might want to give her baby up to a loving traditional Catholic Home???

    There are tons of pro life sites but hardly any sites telling you how to adopt any of these babies.  



    She might want to look into open adoptions vs closed, so she could pick the couple and vice versa.....yrs ago, we tried this......long story short, we did not adopt, God's will, but many do and this is somewhat more preferable......another option might be within the Church, ie, pastor might know of someone to match her to...or a network....


    Sometimes doctors, too.
    I am not alone, for the father is with me.


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    « Reply #11 on: October 09, 2012, 11:50:59 AM »
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  • Catholic Charities have some good people and some bad eggs, same as everywhere.

    They are probably the best bet, because they do not exploit birth mothers.  Their home studies are brutal, like all home studies are.  This is just a fact of life for domestic adoption agencies, no getting around it unless you can afford $50,000 and a private broker.  But foreign adoptions have a huge disruption rate, are very expensive and rife with corruption.

    If they did not make an issue out of where you go to church on Sunday, taking a stand on Tradition would be very imprudent.  It would be the birth parents who choose on the basis of photographs and letters describing who you are.  The birth mothers love their babies very very much and want them to be raised Catholic.  You would meet the birth parent(s) on a first-name basis and be willing to send along progress reports to the Catholic Charities people.  In other words, being compassionate, grateful and kind to the birthmother instead of just wanting a baby.  This is helpful as the kids get older and how they came into the family becomes an issue.

    I am a big advocate of compassion for birthmothers.  :pray:

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    « Reply #12 on: October 09, 2012, 12:05:16 PM »
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    Anyone know a young girl who might want to give her baby up to a loving traditional Catholic Home???

    There are tons of pro life sites but hardly any sites telling you how to adopt any of these babies.  



    She might want to look into open adoptions vs closed, so she could pick the couple and vice versa.....yrs ago, we tried this......long story short, we did not adopt, God's will, but many do and this is somewhat more preferable......another option might be within the Church, ie, pastor might know of someone to match her to...or a network....


    Sometimes doctors, too.


    true, we have 3, used to be 4, very good Catholic MD's in my small parish, 2 of them are husband/wife and run a pediatrics practice..
    Proud "European American" and prouder, still, Catholic

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    « Reply #13 on: November 02, 2012, 02:31:14 AM »
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  • Thank you all for your information.

    Also, it is good to know about toddlers too.  That sounds great.  
    Children with no parents like an orphan would be good.
    I think the homestudy thing has me worried.  yikes.  

    When we went to Mass, the Priest was late because of delayed air travel. So after praying the Rosary We went downstairs and saw bulletin board for services provided by parishioners and saw one for catholic charities so we are going to give them a call.  

     

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    « Reply #14 on: November 02, 2012, 02:35:27 AM »
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  • My husband was so impressed by the Altar boys who were so holy and not one boy talked or smiled and some of them  were very young too.  At our last chapel there was only two adult men.  

     And compare these altar boys to novus ordo altar servers is big contrast.  

    Being around all these big families with their  children makes you want to adopt..
    May God bless you and keep you