There are two worlds out there, the City of Man and the City of God (I will refer here to the City of Man as the world). As a traditional Catholic it is a great blunder, the most hazardous mistake, to mix the two worlds. Yet this is exactly what I see the young people (some parents as old under 45) undertaking, mixing the two worlds. This is what I call brackish waters, the place where the fresh waters of a river meet with the salt waters of oceans and they mix. The water becomes undrinkable. You can't mix the two worlds!
Here are some examples of young trads mixing worlds, playing in the brackish waters:
- A young "trad" girl outside of mass, dresses like all the girls of the world, in short shorts, spandex leggings as pants, tight blue jeans, tight tank tops with exposed belly, bikini.... She has always been allowed to play with boys. She flirts with the boys, and eventually kisses, and everything else that slowly happens and one day she becomes pregnant because she was taught not to use contraceptives. There's the mixing of the two worlds, the parents allowed her to play with boys like the world does. The parents allowed her to dress provocatively like the world does. The parents allowed her to flirt like the world does. The young girl kissed and hugged and everything else slowly lead to pregnancy. All, just like the world does, except she omitted the one thing that makes what the world does possible, contraceptives. There she did as God commands.
- Now the young girl is pregnant, and the parents will act as Catholics for this event and tell her not to abort the child (the world would just abort the child), kill the baby). Now she is a single mother. Some trad girls I've known have gone through this having 2 or more children!
- More mixing takes place: The parents convince the boy that he must marry their daughter and the boy obliges. The girl has two more children with him, and he divorces her and she is left single for the rest of her life if she acts as a Catholic, or she re-marries outside the church (like the world). One day she dies in an accident while still living in a "happy" adulterous second marriage and she goes to hell.