Why do you assume it's allowed, Michaela? Because it appeared on the forum?
You might have noticed that when you post something, it immediately appears on the forum. That means I'm not pre-emptively approving or moderating every post that appears. This isn't a blog.
Right now, the worst man on earth could sign up and post heaven-knows-what and there it would sit for all to read until someone notified me about it.
If any member wishes to leave he is always welcome to do so. I'm not going to try to cajole, force, or beg a member to stay.
That having been said, Gladius is not welcome to use such language on this forum. This is his warning.
I'm going to warn him in a more direct/personal manner as well.
Anyhow, the normal procedure for offensive posts is to report them to the moderator (me or MaterDominici). After several hours -- sometimes up to a day -- you can conclude that "he's not going to do anything about it" and go ahead and leave and do whatever else it is you feel you need to do.
I can't sit here at the keyboard all day. I have a family to take care of. I have to do paid work once in a while. I have to take care of my own personal needs, etc.
I was correcting Gladius just last night.