I am un-banning S2S and Wallflower, as planned.
To Telesphorus:
You have been warned that I will not tolerate such disruptions on my forum again. Regardless of how much you feel you've been wronged, or what apologies you think you're owed. Take to up with them personally via e-mail or something. Leave this forum out of it.
To the anti-Telesphorus crowd:
You have many good points, but you must remember that it is wrong to provoke a man to anger. And you certainly shouldn't "tease" a man or exaggerate his faults -- which would be slander. Provoking to anger is a sin; it actually can be a mortal sin. Slander is also sinful. For example, it is a fact that Telesphorus is not perverted for being attracted to 18 year old women. Even 17 year old women, while considered "underage" in the USA, are sɛҳuąƖly mature and certainly not pre-pubescent! Let us be accurate and fair in our criticism, and not distort or violate Truth.
But, long story short, leave Telesphorus alone about his quest for a wife.
To S2S:
You seemed to be complaining about my moderation of the forum, but how exactly am I supposed to moderate PRIVATE MESSAGES? You realize, of course, that an inflammatory post like the PM you posted would normally get deleted by me *before* it starts trouble. But the message you received from Tele wasn't a public post, it was a private message to you. I've warned Tele about sending such messages in the future -- what it will mean for the status of his CathInfo account.
Someone also brought up Tele's popularity (reputation score). He has a decently high score because he is very intelligent and insightful about matters touching on the Crisis in the Church and the modern world. When he talks about anything other than "what happened to him in Ohio", "celebrating a marriage" or a couple other topics, he gets lots of agreement. In fact, many of his posts would probably get more thumbs up if they weren't from "Telesphorus", a poster who some have resolved to never give any positive feedback to.
When he brings up his pet topics -- which he is practically obsessed about -- he gets hundreds of downvotes.
I can agree with this. With regards to the PM I don't think anyone expects you to moderate PMs, it was the fact that he has been absent, for the very purpose of taking a break, getting away, letting things die down, and returns only to find that, with no instigation on his part. After repeated PMs it's not that surprising he was finally done with it.
To many who see only what's on the forum, the Tele thing is no big deal, I get that. But there's more of an undercurrent than people realize, there are very
real people [/i]in real life[/i] who are deeply affected by his threats that are not just internet talk and those PMs give a bit more insight for those who don't realize this.
He even came over to s2s's chat and gloated over there after s2s was banned here. What's the point of that but to further incite even when he was already up?
There are
some people who enjoy inciting Tele, I know that, I saw it on FE, but he is far from the victim he tries to portray. In fact the intelligence of which you speak highly is exactly what is used to accomplish this image.
Aside from that, if he has been warned, that's enough for me to know you have good intentions in being fair. I'll liken it to being a parent with a wayward child, you can only
say you disagree so many times and if action never takes place, the child becomes untouchable and incorrigeable.
That's how things have been around here. No one name calls as viciously and gratuitously as Tele. That and the blatant racism, the sour grapes ANYtime the word woman comes up in a thread etc... and you can
say you disagree with it all you want but eventually those words mean nothing. He becomes bolder and bolder and others feel the need to step in. It's not their job but no one else is doing anything so they feel compelled to act.
However, if you are prepared to act and he knows it now, perhaps the rants will subside and we can successfully ignore each other. Perhaps receivers of nasty PMs will feel more comfortable reporting them to you instead of posting them if they know they will be taken seriously and not rationalized away because he has upvotes. Sometimes public and private are two very different worlds.