You're most welcome to come round and dialogue all you want, and if you are not the abrasive type you could sit around and read all you want.
And prayers will be said for your parental care issues.
I must warn you, however, that using descriptions such as "DRE" and "pastoral assistant" is very much like waving the proverbial red flag in front of the bull on a traditional site.
I wish you the best, in any case.
