Matto, go to whatever forum you're interested in knowing about and you'll probably find there a person or two or dozen whom you know from other forums. If you trust their opinion, ask them what they think. All you'll do by asking here is draw out all of the moderators of these forums to defend their respective turfs as well as members who've been banned and wish to state how unjust their banning was. Basically, everyone with an agenda will post* whereas I'm sure you can pick out a person or two with no agenda and ask them personally.
*That is not to say that everyone who has answered has an agenda, only that it might be difficult to know who does and who does not.