I didn't mean to call them pit vipers; just likened the experience to cuddling one. Your theory is good, I think, just doesn't go far enough. It's more like their faith being wasted on them, because they don't live it. More sins of omission than commission. Little things, you know, like responding to people. Little politenesses. One of the gifts of the Holy Ghost is hospitality. How we are to treat our enemies, etc. Live the whole gospel. With things like bullying, you've missed the point of Christ's teaching. It has become so ingrained in Catholicism that it goes unnoticed by most.