To start I will describe what I think is happening in my situation at Church. I suspect that the women at my Church are cohesively working together in order to set me up with one of the women there. The woman is somebody whom I suspect to be a very good person, but that I would not choose for marriage on my own freewill. Why might I suspect this?
Today I went into the cafeteria of the Church after mass. 2 women (1 of which the girl who I am talking about) must have noticed me go into the cafeteria. After lounging around for a few minutes. They come into the cafeteria and pass by me. I got the sense that they wanted to see my reaction, and whether or not I would say hi and which one I would look at while saying hi.
Another example of what is going on..
There was a dance a couple of months ago that I went to, and a few of the women at my Church made a pass at me (expressed nonverbal interest) just a day or 2 prior to the dance. When I showed up at the dance, those same women were hanging all over their boyfriends which I had no idea that they had. Low and behold the same woman from my first example was at the dance without a boyfriend. Why would the other women make a pass at me prior to the dance when they had boyfriends? Perhaps to get me to go the dance that everyone was aware of? Perhaps to get me to go to the dance because of this one woman?
These are the two examples that I can think of off the top of my head that lead me to believe that the women at my Church are manipulating the situation in order to match me up with this one woman. I also suspect that they are putting me into a sticky situation to where if I pursue another woman that I will get turned down. All in order to get me to go with this particular woman whom I am not interested.
If this is occurring, which I suspect it is, I really think it needs to stop. It does, in fact, cause me to become a little bit angry. I also think that people (women in this case) should not try to manipulate a situation in such a way. In all reality it is not allowing God to bring 2 people together naturally. It is actually preventing God from doing so. There is no need to try to manipulate a situation to bring 2 people together.
Lastly, while I am at it, in case some of the women in this thread come to this website and read my posts here, I know what I want. I want a woman who is holy and of the same caliber (looks wise) as myself. I will not settle for anything other than that. So if you are listening and you are trying to manipulate the situation then please stop. You are only really causing me anger and frustration. I do not like games like these.
P.S. And seriously, do not try to make me out to be the bad guy for not accepting a woman who is average looking or less. I do not believe in that ideology. I know what I want, and I do realize looks are not everything. You must truly love that person also. I won't accept anything that does not meet my criteria.