Not everyone starts out by a TLM.
But it should be your #1 priority in the coming years, ahead of things like:
* Family lives closeby
* I have friends there
* Better pay
* Close to entertainment, culture, things to do
* I like the state/culture
* I'm familiar with this place
In other words, there are a host of reasons people choose to live in one place instead of another. But if a place had "everything" going for it, but there is no true Mass available -- you need to reconsider that "everything" bit. Without the Mass, you have nothing.
The Mass is of infinite value, and without the Faith and the Sacraments, this whole life is a waste. What does it matter if you are surrounded by all earthly comforts -- a high paying job, all kinds of entertainment just 15 minutes from your house, plus legitimate (not-so-base) comforts like having friends and family nearby, but you end up losing your soul for lack of spiritual direction, confession, and the graces from the Mass? Summed up in one word, it would be: Fail. (Download the MP3 at the bottom of my post for the audio version!)
All things pass. That INCLUDES friends and family. It certainly includes pleasures, enjoyments, money, your house, land, stuff, the people around you, etc. The only things that persist are supernatural treasures.
I realize it's difficult to up and move, especially for a family. But when a family DOES have to move for other reasons (job for the unemployed man of the house?), all the other concerns should be weighed as golf balls, and the presence of a TLM should be represented by a cinder block. Then weigh everything in a balance.