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Offline InfiniteFaith

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Should you avoid marrying someone
« on: September 29, 2013, 02:06:02 PM »
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    Offline jen51

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    Should you avoid marrying someone
    « Reply #1 on: September 29, 2013, 02:07:11 PM »
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    • Yes.
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    « Reply #2 on: September 29, 2013, 02:07:58 PM »
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    • What kind of question is that?  

    Any Catholic knows what the answer is. I don't even know why you're asking it.

    They say, "There are no dumb questions", but I don't know...
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    Offline InfiniteFaith

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    Should you avoid marrying someone
    « Reply #3 on: September 29, 2013, 02:11:14 PM »
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    What kind of question is that?  

    Any Catholic knows what the answer is. I don't even know why you're asking it.

    They say, "There are no dumb questions", but I don't know...


    I suppose.
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    Offline Mabel

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    Should you avoid marrying someone
    « Reply #4 on: September 29, 2013, 02:22:28 PM »
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    • It isn't a matter of avoiding, it's a matter of not marrying them. You shouldn't. Unless you like your life filled with bitterness, strife, and resentment.
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    Offline Frances

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    Should you avoid marrying someone
    « Reply #5 on: September 29, 2013, 02:30:57 PM »
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    This is a deal-breaker...or ought to be!
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    Offline 2Vermont

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    Should you avoid marrying someone
    « Reply #6 on: September 29, 2013, 02:46:36 PM »
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    This is a deal-breaker...or ought to be!


    Agreed.  You want to go into marriage reducing the amount of conflict regarding matters of faith.  That doesn't necessarily mean spouses will never change wrt those things during the course of your marriage, but you want to at least start off on the right foot.

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    « Reply #7 on: September 29, 2013, 03:27:44 PM »
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    • Quote from: InfiniteFaith
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    What kind of question is that?  

    Any Catholic knows what the answer is. I don't even know why you're asking it.

    They say, "There are no dumb questions", but I don't know...


    I suppose.


    Dumb or not, it is clear you need guidance with this.  I think it is easy sometimes to think we can let this or that go (or think someone will change) ....especially when we find someone we feel very strongly about.   This is why we should get as much information regarding these things ASAP before we get emotionally involved/attached.

     
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    Offline InfiniteFaith

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    « Reply #8 on: September 29, 2013, 03:39:27 PM »
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    What kind of question is that?  

    Any Catholic knows what the answer is. I don't even know why you're asking it.

    They say, "There are no dumb questions", but I don't know...


    I suppose.


    Dumb or not, it is clear you need guidance with this.  I think it is easy sometimes to think we can let this or that go (or think someone will change) ....especially when we find someone we feel very strongly about.   This is why we should get as much information regarding these things ASAP before we get emotionally involved/attached.

     


    Thats kinda what I was thinking. But I suppose we should avoid anything like this without question.
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    Offline OHCA

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    « Reply #9 on: September 29, 2013, 10:53:46 PM »
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    What kind of question is that?  

    Any Catholic knows what the answer is. I don't even know why you're asking it.

    They say, "There are no dumb questions", but I don't know...


    I think the same thing about much of what IF says and asks.  Sometimes it seems like he's just trying to stir conflict.  Of course this particular question shouldn't cause conflict within the forum.
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    Offline poche

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    « Reply #10 on: October 01, 2013, 12:43:46 AM »
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    • Intending to not have children during a marriage is an impediment to the marriage.
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