Since nobody has yet cited any authoritative source, I am inclined to believe that specific mandates such as "suit and tie" are non-binding personal opinions which should not even be posted to avoid scandalizing someone who wants to go to Mass wearing their thaub, kilt, lederhosen, caftan or whatever they deem most comfortable and suitable to the weather conditions regardless of the fashion of the day.
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No, that isn't right at all. What you're doing here is identifying a lack of a universal and from that concluding that just about anything goes.
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It is a general principle of charity that our mass attendance be non-disruptive to our fellow attendees. For that reason, you will find clergy building things like quiet rooms for parents with especially unruly children even though there's no Church law or universal legislation that establishes the decibel point at which a child must be removed from the Church. Ditto, you will see recommended dress codes.
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You call it a scandalous personal opinion, when in point of fact it is merely the application of common sense strategies to help provide an appropriate worship environment. Is it appropriate, if I'm a diabetic, to, as a matter of course, inject insulin in the pew? Is it appropriate, if I am a doctor, to have my pager on the loudest volume during mass (as opposed to vibrate)? No, it isn't. And it doesn't have anything to do with it being sinful to take insulin or be a doctor, it has everything to do with the general principle of charity which insists that we not be disruptive to our neighbor.
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Does that mean that a diabetic can't, if emergency calls, use their insulin right there in the pew? Of course not. Nor does it mean that men can't show up to mass after getting off a long shift and wearing jeans. What it does mean, at the very least, is that these kinds of things remain exceptional and out of the ordinary. You showing up to mass every Sunday in something culturally disruptive like a kilt or lederhosen is what the scandal would be. Because such dress is culturally alien, you would be signalling your disregard for your parishioners and your own vanity.