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Author Topic: Pet Peeve - people asking me to haggle with myself  (Read 8239 times)

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Offline Matthew

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Re: Pet Peeve - people asking me to haggle with myself
« Reply #10 on: October 01, 2025, 12:43:27 PM »
I've never understood this "or best offer" business.  To me, it's like saying "I don't really expect to get $100 for this item, but I'll entertain offers below $100, just how low I will go, I'm not saying".  Seems to me that it should just go without saying, that haggling back and forth will happen.  Unless it's an auction-type sale (as on eBay), certainly nobody is going to offer more than $100.

Just to clarify: I'm not complaining about haggling, or even low-ballers in this particular case. 
I'm complaining about people who literally want you to haggle with yourself. They don't want to go through the "hassle" of haggling for a lower price; they want you to go back-and-forth with YOURSELF until you settle on some lower price.

I mean, if you ask me "what's your price for this" or "what's a fair price for this" -- just look at my asking price! I've already answered that question. If you want it cheaper than that, I'm sorry but you're going to have to go out on a limb and ask.

Offline Everlast22

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Re: Pet Peeve - people asking me to haggle with myself
« Reply #11 on: October 01, 2025, 12:48:03 PM »
I sold a fair amount on FB Marketplace and have gotten low-ballers. I've had a few people haggle in person but I say the price is firm. It does depend how desperate you want to sell something. Like I would look at how much it costs new, halve it, and maybe lower it. Or check similar listings. But if I'm desperate to sell it quickly, I'll price it lower. I also try to be more self-conscience about my spending. It's a pain to sell things on the used market especially with hyperinflation.
I've sold/bought probably 75-90 items in my FB marketplace spaces. I have not had one bad interaction with haggling in person. I get all that out of the way in the messaging.  I've had a few people say "no" when something was, lets say, 100 bucks and I said 80 bucks (thinking I could meet at 90) and not then going any further. 

I usually just pay asking price, but if something is not worth what they are asking even at a lower price, I'm going to see if they will go lower.

One reason I feel I've had success on Marketplace is because I don't sell clothes... :laugh1: That kind of stuff would frustrate me. People coming over, trying stuff on and then not taking it? nah.


Offline FarmerWife

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Re: Pet Peeve - people asking me to haggle with myself
« Reply #12 on: October 01, 2025, 12:54:05 PM »
I've had three filipinos ask me "What's your best price" or "what's your lowest price" and that just annoyed me. I think it's what they do. I didn't even put OBO in my listing price. I just say the price is firm to get them to go away. 

Re: Pet Peeve - people asking me to haggle with myself
« Reply #13 on: October 01, 2025, 01:31:51 PM »
“What’s your lowest price” really trips my trigger as well. Out of principle I will never entertain it. I might tell them that my price is available on the listing, or reiterate my price and tell them if they have something else in mind they can shoot me an offer. Let them haggle with themselves lol. :laugh1:

Offline Everlast22

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Re: Pet Peeve - people asking me to haggle with myself
« Reply #14 on: October 01, 2025, 01:45:38 PM »
When selling, I usually accept a lower offer. I start just above fair. But, I'm not on to screw anyone over, just make a few bucks and get something to someone for cheap who needs it.