I just finished it. Oh my gosh.. she’s so stupid. It’s been around here before, and I actually agree you don’t need the state papers. (After much convincing I admit).My husband and I got married in a small church ceremony. The priest didn’t put the papers in because I needed state insurance at the time. After I got off it, and put on my husbands insurance when we were “state” married. But it was a huge mistake! After we got married everything went up in price. Taxes, insurance, and little things you don’t even think of. My brother is getting “raped” by the state for child support, and he didn’t even marry the woman! He was the sole provider for her, and their child. He gave them whatever they wanted. Now he can’t even afford basic things. The state is unfair towards men, and it’s because feminist have ruined it. They have absolutely no say in if their baby gets aborted, but get financial ruined if the women decided to take him to court. They should do what they can to protect themselves! 

Also, she’s stupid for cheating, and wondering why he’s not marrying her. If a man loves you, and wants to be with you forever. He will make it happen. He just realized she wasn’t worth it. Everyone makes mistakes sure, but you will pay for them. He should just leave since she’s proven she won’t have his back, or respect him.

Who says you can’t have the nice dress, and a beautiful ceremony without the state getting involved?