And how do I make spiritual communions?
"My Lord Jesus Christ, I desire to be united to thee now and forever"
Then (or better before) unite your self to the holy Sacrifices of the Mass. I have not found a formal formula for that one so I just make my own. "I unite myself to all the Holy Sacrifices of the Mass being made this day".
I disagree with the Admin on the "yellow light" position. "If I decide for my family" is totally subjective.
What a good Catholic must know is that there is a conciliar Church, a cancer within the Catholic Church. A normal reaction to knowing this is to wish to stay away from it. The moral theology of the Church obliges us to stay away from valid sacraments in the case of a danger to the faith and an alignment with heresy and schism. Both these conditions are met perfectly in the SSPX. Sorry people, but it is the truth.
The sacraments are not toys to make us feel good. If a person is worried about their kids, then welcome to the real world. You are only enduring what Catholic parents have endured for thousands of years in isolated places. What gives you the right to bend the rules just because you don't want to say no to your child?
Anyway, Takion, that last bit was not addressed to you but to others. Don't worry about the politics of the resistance too much. Just follow what the Church has always taught and you won't go wrong. Japanese Catholics endured no sacraments for 200 years. God will certainly reward you if you can resist going to an SSPX Mass.
And to all the naysayers out there, I'm sorry to admit it, but Father Pfeiffer was right on this issue and we were wrong. This happens. Deal with it. Swallow your pride and do the right thing yourselves and stop taking advantage of the humility of a new convert.