The problem is this: when a man comes to understand what has happened, he will no longer be satisfied with less.
Unless he tries to delude himself, or make some kind of mental compromise, he will have made it MUCH HARDER to find a woman who isn't tainted, as he understands it.
Now it's true that the modern world has tainted MANY people, both men and women.
It's also true that ignorance ISN'T bliss -- because even a man who doesn't quite get it, and marries a women who is 10% or 20% feminist, will have the same problems in his marriage. (Back to what I'm always saying -- how ignorance doesn't remove the ill effects of a decision)
So to solve the problem, a man NEEDS to understand what has been done to women -- which makes him recognize it. The problem is, it can be lonely for such a guy, until he manages to find a women sufficiently untainted. He will be blissfully happy when he finds her -- but it can be quite a cross until then.
I can relate a bit, because I understand the modern world VERY well. A bit TOO well -- so much so, that I feel like an alien that has landed on this planet. I feel totally different from my in-laws, the people in my neighborhood, people at the store, etc. I understand the vanity of the world, and they don't. I am unable to enjoy frivolous, worldly pursuits -- they easily enjoy them (at least for a while, until they get sick of them, for material things never satisfy).
I think it's the same kind of thing.
I can say that I wouldn't trade my distaste for the world for anything -- because it's paired with a zest (relish, taste) for the truly beautiful -- Dogmas of the Faith, Chant, Our Lord, Our Lady, the Saints, etc.
In Christ,
Matthew