Cassini
Thank you for your post.
I am 48 years old, I always tell my kids that I saw "The tail end" of the Old America growing up in North Jersey. I remember when I was young going to Mass to a packed house in very large Catholic Churches, standing room only.
It must have been the beginning of The NO, around 69-73. There were Processions through the streets of our city( Which had mostly Italians,Irish,Polish ethnics) I remember hanging out with my buddies on the corner, and having Nuns walking up and stopping to admonish us.
There was a Pizzeria, all the kids would eat at, one time my buddies and I were there, it was very loud with all the kids laughing and joking, then all of a sudden The Parish Priest walked in and the place went silent. He walked to each table and spoke with each one, told us all to be good.
It was very strange, of course these are the memories of a young mind, but there wasn't any divorce, all the Moms were home,in the neighborhood we were all the same religion and shared the same culture.
At the public school I went to, we had a boys gym and the girls had their own gym.
I recall when we were making First Communion, we had to go on a retreat during the week, and the whole class except for the two kids, left school to go.
Then all of a sudden the modern world came crashing down on us and its been mayhem ever since.
Now the Churches are empty, 99% of those kids from the pizzeria and retreat either became secular or Protestant; the Nuns and Priests are no where in sight, no more processions, the neighborhood is now Americanized ( Jєωιѕн Multi-cultural)
Sooo Sad
Cassini you hit the nail on the head, when you said all the explanations seem made up, so right....so very right.