As I understand it, it isn't all or nothing, it is a matter of degrees. In other words, a women lives from her heart, a man lives from his head. So, a women's priority is by necessity, her feelings, because until those are resolved, she's not comfortable. While a man's priority, is by necessity, his thinking, because until that is resolved, he's not comfortable. They both think and feel, but they do not have the same priorities. This is supposed to be complementary, but that of course requires starving vice and feeding virtue. It requires reason and a desire to do what's right. Otherwise, this can only lead to war.