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Offline Croix de Fer

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Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
« on: June 15, 2018, 06:47:19 PM »
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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #1 on: June 15, 2018, 07:39:57 PM »
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  • Interesting from a legal perspective (i.e. keep the state out of your business).  Though, even if you're not married can't the CPS still come to your house and "check on the kids"?   


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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #2 on: June 15, 2018, 08:10:12 PM »
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  • Interesting from a legal perspective (i.e. keep the state out of your business).  Though, even if you're not married can't the CPS still come to your house and "check on the kids"?  
    Yes, they can.
    And most states have automatic common law marriages, too.

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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #3 on: June 16, 2018, 02:35:25 PM »
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  • The protestant pastor sees the "systemic epidemic" of married women leaving their husbands. 

    But how was this epidemic systematically engineered?

    The satanist, talmudist, Karl Marx, made it a tenet of his communist religion.


    "Social progress can be measured by the
          social position of the female sex"

    The jews and their masonic minions know they can't achieve control of society until they destroy the family.

    "Some preachers will keep silence about the truth, and others will trample it underfoot and deny it. Sanctity of life will be held in derision even by those who outwardly profess it, for in those days Our Lord Jesus Christ will send them not a true Pastor but a destroyer."  St. Francis of Assisi

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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #4 on: June 16, 2018, 05:03:58 PM »
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  • The jews and their masonic minions know they can't achieve control of society until they destroy the family.

    As far as I know every single member of the Frankfurt School without exception was a Jew.


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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #5 on: June 16, 2018, 06:10:38 PM »
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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #6 on: June 17, 2018, 01:39:06 PM »
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  • Yes, they can.
    And most states have automatic common law marriages, too.
    No they don’t.  Common law marriage is only legal in 10 states.  It has been outlawed in 27, and was never legal in the remaining 13.

    The 10 states where common law marriage remains legal are Colorado, Iowa, Kansas, New Hampshire, Montana, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas, and Utah.

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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #7 on: June 18, 2018, 04:09:08 AM »
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  •  All these "pastors" are of the world, of the City of Man and not of the City of God. ALL of the people of the City of Man will never find the solutions because they are in with Satan.

    There is only one solution, the return to the true Faith lived. There is no other way. That is the answer to all of these problems. No one can fight Satan any other way, they do not stand a chance. If one lives the true faith, everything changes, and the tables are completely turned, it is then Satan who stands no chance. However, there is no half way on this, if you slack off and go part way, it will not work. Do not fool yourselves, live the faith 100%.
    The Vatican II church - Assisting Souls to Hell Since 1962

    For there shall arise false Christs and false prophets, and shall show great signs and wonders, insomuch as to deceive (if possible) even the elect. Mat 24:24


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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #8 on: June 18, 2018, 09:42:05 AM »
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  • Marriage is both a natural and spiritual institution.  Though God wishes all men to be good catholics, this isn't reality, especially nowadays.  Non-catholics should, and can, have happy marriages because such goals are within reach if the natural law (i.e. 10 commandments) are followed.  *Some* of these pastors give really good practical advice because most problems are with human nature, which all men have the ability to understand.

    So, while I agree with you that non-catholics cannot solve some problems because they don't have the proper spiritual weapons, there are still many problems they can solve, when they deal with human nature. 

    I find that many Trad clerics today do an excellent job teaching the theory, spirituality and theology of the Faith, but the practical side of things is often ignored.  This is mostly due to our limited exposure to our priests, which mainly consists of a 30 min sermon once a week.  So the priest concentrates on the 'essentials' of the faith.  In times past, when rome was orthodox and we had a functioning church, there existed men like Fulton Sheen and assistant pastors of each neighborhood, who had the time and vocation to bring the faith down to the practical level and help solve problems of day to day life. 

    This type of guidance does not exist today on a regular basis and it is part of our suffering and persecution.  God knows we need these things and in some areas, like marriage or the family, I do think *some* protestant ministers do a good job of offering 'real life' solutions and guidance, even if they are on the natural level or based in Scripture (which has a lot of practical advice, for example in the books of Proverbs, Eccelsiastes, etc).  These ministers have to time to spend on research and on helping people because protestantism is a natural religion and they focus on helping humanity.  But even Catholics can still take advantage of such 'natural law' wisdom and benefit from it.

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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #9 on: June 18, 2018, 10:31:49 AM »
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  • This is my personal experience, so take it for what you will, but I have found that when it comes to practical marriage issues, traditional Catholic priests I have tried talking to (FSSP and SSPX) are either unwilling or just ignore you. I know priests are busy, but these things are important. Where are people supposed to turn when you have issues such as one of the spouses refusing the martial debt, or one of the spouses is just off in la-la land and not fulfilling their duties of state in life. Catholic marriage "counselors" are not the answer to this issue because they are all Novus Ordo and do not have a firm grasp on the traditional teaching of the Church with regards to the rights and duties of the married state.

    I have noticed this trend too, more and more women are just leaving their husbands. There is a gentleman I know on facebook who's wife left him, and they have 5 children. He is a good Catholic from what I can tell on facebook and takes his faith very seriously. It is just a really sad state of affairs all around.

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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #10 on: June 18, 2018, 11:37:42 AM »
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  • If anyone says that true and natural water is not necessary for baptism and thus twists into some metaphor the words of our Lord Jesus Christ" Unless a man be born again of water and the Holy Spirit" (Jn 3:5) let him be anathema.


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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #11 on: June 18, 2018, 12:13:27 PM »
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  • I'm not sure why the video got three downthumbs.  Is it because it's a protestant pastor?
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    Good luck finding that wisdom from anybody else nowadays.  This is a problem very unique to today, and this man had quite a bit of practical advice which he was giving as someone who has professionally counseled married couples, and it all seemed very sound to me-- nothing he had to say was "based in religion" but much more in basic human psychology and the times we find ourselves in.
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    He seemed to recommend a prenup at the beginning (like a lot of fiery black speakers, he doesn't always conclude his points).  One might find that objectionable.  I'm not entirely sure.  What I would think is that if you're marrying someone and you feel that there's any reason at all to get a prenup, then you probably shouldn't marry them.  If you do get a prenup I don't think it disturbs the validity or lawfulness of the marriage, unless it spells out a clear and decisive lack of intent to marry.
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    Anyways.  Thought it was a good video.  Prayers for all the single men out there.
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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #12 on: June 18, 2018, 01:15:38 PM »
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  • The nature of relationships has changed and serial attachments are now becoming the norm for women. There is their need for emotional security which if not met leads to secret planning and plotting to find a replacement. Material security may now be less important in the case of career women but she will help herself to what assets there are when leaving. Compare this to old style marriages where you honoured for life the vows that were made.

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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #13 on: June 18, 2018, 02:06:13 PM »
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  • I find that many Trad clerics today do an excellent job teaching the theory, spirituality and theology of the Faith, but the practical side of things is often ignored.  
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    Our sspx priest does not help women.  He tells them to see their doctor to get drugs.

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    Re: Men Considering Marriage, Watch This First
    « Reply #14 on: June 18, 2018, 02:11:14 PM »
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  • I have noticed this trend too, more and more women are just leaving their husbands. There is a gentleman I know on facebook who's wife left him, and they have 5 children. He is a good Catholic from what I can tell on facebook and takes his faith very seriously. It is just a really sad state of affairs all around.
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     You don't know the circumstances of their marriage, so you should not presume the fault to be hers.  She may have a husband like Croix...
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