So, I'm a family man, and I'm still nocturnal. I've been a nocturnal guy ever since I was a kid. Sleeping in until 12, 1, or 2pm isn't new for me.
However, it IS new for the wifey, and especially for the 2-year old. I was unable to get to sleep at a decent hour last night, and woke up rather late today. I miss half the day with the family because of this.
Questions:
1. Does anyone else have this issue?
2. What do you recommend?
I swear, sometimes if I try to go to bed at the same time with everyone, I will be in bed staring into the darkness for three or four hours, and it makes me insane. I was considering sleeping pills. I don't know.
First, I for some reason feel guilty about your thumbs down for this post as if it was maybe a knee-jerk reaction to the thumbs up I gave it. So, I'd just like to clarify that I "liked" the post not because I think staying up and sleeping in is a good thing, but because I was impressed that you brought it up at all and think it is a worthwhile thing to discuss. Sorry if I had anything to do with the other person's dislike.
Anyhow... as for suggestions...
Going to bed drastically before you're tired usually isn't very helpful. You lie awake for a few hours and then sleep in just as long the next day as you didn't actually go to sleep any earlier. I don't know about your household, but time is a precious commodity around here and we just can't afford for anyone to be doing nothing for a period of time like that.
If you want a rapid change, setting a specific get-up time is more effective. Not my preferred option, though, as you're tired all of day 1 (and probably into days 2-5, but I've never made it that far) and we can't afford much of that around here either.
I set bedtime goals and then make sure my nighttime habits are conducive to meeting the goal. For example, if I've been going to sleep at 2 am, I'll set a goal of 1:30. Then, I'll make sure not to have any engery-boosting snacks after midnight and spend the time between 1 and 1:30 doing something relaxing. If I'm serious about meeting the goal, my computer has to be off 1/2 hour before the goal time. If the 1:30 goal is met a few days in a row, I'll move it back to 1 and adjust the other timeframes accordingly.