I would discourage the military as an option, unless you wanted to excel at some exclusive military skill like flying a fighter jet or some military activity.
Someone advised me the opposite was true. He said for every pilot in the air there are 200 people supporting it. He said get a math or engineering degree and go in the AF, they have the nicest facilities for families.
I wish my former husband would have joined the Army. After college he did require service in his native country's military and the same position here was really in demand.