You see Henry, just reading the notes here might even confuse you, but please don't let that happen. One Catholic person giving you advice, and then another giving you different advice is a consequence of the world having no true pope, or as some like to say not a good pope.
Please don't let this confusion destroy your Faith. We are after all living in the apostasy as you say.
You may meet people on your journey telling you SSPX are damned or SV is not Catholic, but again that is a consequence of having no true leader. When the shepherd is struck the sheep will scatter.
This is a hard time to convert but many people do.
It is important that you do. Eternity is forever, just think on that, forever and ever. Allow no one to steal your Faith away. God will find a place for you.