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Offline Trinity

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« on: July 03, 2007, 03:17:53 PM »
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  • who IS an innocent bystander.

    Carolus, if I ever had a brother with the hubris to think he knows what is best for other people I would have cut his branch off the tree.  This is not internecine and has nothing to do with the hierarchy.  John's credentials are even more suspect than Benedict XVI, if that is possible.  Yet he has the temerity to make decisions for the forum and all the people on it.

    Veritatis, you can do better than that. Put down the butter knife and get out that rapier wit of yours.  In case you missed it, the subject here is "who rules".  Who calls the shots, who says what we can say.  Above all, who is the Lord High Keeper of the Truth.  John thinks it is him.  I say it isn't.

    John, if the shoe fits...
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    « Reply #1 on: July 03, 2007, 03:29:49 PM »
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  • And if I had a sister such as you I would be happy to be seperated, though it was always my understanding that it is fathers who prune the tree, you have caused and are continuing to cause a great deal of unrest over something which is of little importance, certainly it is not worth days of arguing which is now spreading to other none related posts mainly because of you.
    adstiterunt reges terrae et principes convenerunt in unum adversus Dominum et adversus Christum eius diapsalma disrumpamus vincula eorum et proiciamus a nobis iugum ipsorum


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    « Reply #2 on: July 03, 2007, 03:54:36 PM »
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  • Another arbiter of what is and what isn't.  Do you guys go to some school or something for ego building?  Self proclaimed Leadership 101, or perhaps Sleight of Mouth to fool the masses into thinking you are an authority?  Do It Yourself Despotism (Benevolence optional)?  How about 30 days to Invincible Pride?  Did I miss any?
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    « Reply #3 on: July 03, 2007, 04:37:50 PM »
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  • Trinity what are you talking about?
    adstiterunt reges terrae et principes convenerunt in unum adversus Dominum et adversus Christum eius diapsalma disrumpamus vincula eorum et proiciamus a nobis iugum ipsorum

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    « Reply #4 on: July 03, 2007, 04:54:22 PM »
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  • Trinity, there is STILL just one boss around here. The rest of us are just left to our opinions and whether or not we can type more of what we want to say than the next guy.

    Are you looking for a "no opinions allowed" ruling?  :judge:

    I'm sure the boss would like as much as anyone to see a board where everyone got along and never argued, but as we are all still human and, even worse, mostly cholerics, that just isn't ever going to happen.
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    « Reply #5 on: July 03, 2007, 05:16:11 PM »
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  • I wish you were right, Mater, and Chant was the sole boss around here, but you need to read a few of these posts a little better and pick up how much bossiness is going on.  Here is just one:

    John Stevens said:

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    I'll tell you flat out I will shed no tears about someone leaving who pushes the sedevacantist error in such a manner as to refer to JPII as an antipope and believes the election of a validly and licitly elected Pope, since the death of Pope Gregory XVII in 1989 hasn't happened yet. That's not even mainstream sedevacantism. That's a whole 'nother path that most sedes don't even take seriously from what I know of them. I will not apologize if the firmness of my post has kept such garbage from appearing in the future on a Catholic forum such as this. Sedevacantism is not Catholic, and no amount of posting from some yahoo with an internet connection who cuts & pastes and decided to pout, pick up his ball, and go home is going to convince me otherwise.


    Opinions are good, even differing opinions, because in the process of offering up each other's opinions, light can be shed.  Sometimes it takes just a slight change in the turn of a phrase to turn that light bulb on.  But who are any among us to say what others may or may not do, may or may not say, may or may not have as an opinion.

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    Above all, who is the Lord High Keeper of the Truth.


    Does that sound like I want a "no opinions allowed" ruling?  Quite the opposite.

    I repeat:

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    I will not apologize if the firmness of my post has kept such garbage from appearing in the future on a Catholic forum such as this.


    That sounds a lot like "no opinions but mine allowed", doesn't it?  
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    « Reply #6 on: July 03, 2007, 05:45:55 PM »
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    I repeat:

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    I will not apologize if the firmness of my post has kept such garbage from appearing in the future on a Catholic forum such as this.


    That sounds a lot like "no opinions but mine allowed", doesn't it?  


    Of course it does, but by what means does John have of ensuring that it happens? All he can do is repeat his opinion again and again, and, if it was ever determined by Chant that he's crossed the line in rudeness, he would be gone and the opinions he's trying to eliminate would still remain.

    Now, I would assume this is most problematic to you when a member takes what the opposing opinion has to say as law and departs as a result. But, this again is something that can't be controlled as far as I know.

    Personally, I would consider a statement which flat out declares that one opinion or the other on sedevactism is wrong violates the spirit of the rules here in that discussion and membership of both sorts are allowed. But, if that were the case, it would be many more people than just John who would be gone.

    I know plenty of bossy people, but until they're promoted to something more than just bossy, I'm free to ignore them.
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    « Reply #7 on: July 03, 2007, 06:21:54 PM »
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  • Different strokes for different folks, Mater.  There is always that last straw and God alone knows the size of the straw stack we each carry.  

    This does bother me greatly for a number of reasons, not the least of which was the malice aforethought.  I'm sure John would be ecstatic if he could do away with free speech as long as he or his clone were the ones dictating legitimate speech.  I've often thought about the people who think they are going to reign in hell, because I suspect that those who think they will be on the top of the pile, will, in fact, be on the bottom.  It will be the same for those who want to do away with free speech, too, I'm sure.  

    The unmitigated arrogance of all these people who know what is best for the rest of us has rubbed me totally raw.  From the elite elites who think we should be grateful that they are running the world for us, to the local zoning officer who proudly dictates that our toilet lids must be down at all times.  They reek of sulpher till I can stand no more.

    And I grieve the loss of Stephanos, who not only brought fresh material, but was willing to talk about it.  I don't know his past history, his weaknesses, what wounds may have been re-opened, or whatever it was that caused him to bolt.  I do know that we each have our story, each have a load limit.  And I can't find him.  How proud John and Mike are of their work, and how ashamed I am of it.  If these are Catholics, don't look for converts too soon or very often.  

    They will not long remain proud of their behavior.  Those who exalt themselves will surely be humbled.
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    « Reply #8 on: July 03, 2007, 10:08:14 PM »
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  • For someone crying pride, hubris, grievance, etc. doesn't it strike you awfully odd that someone needs to start another thread on this? "Look at me, I'm grieving, and those animals killed my friend." Get over it. How do you deal in real life with tragedy? Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Well you are scorned and by preaching to us how much pride we have did you forget your own mirror? What did Our Lord do when attacked personally (not on matters of doctrine)? Well lead by example and stop parading yourself some kind of authority on pride.

    Grow up. This is a message board, not real daily life and if you feel so grieved pray a novena for the hubris, arrogance, evil, despicable, wicked, vicious, interfering, perfidious, novus-ordinarian loving, deniers of God and His saints people we are in your view.

    John did nothing except explain his point of view. I merely showed how using such quotes isn't fair to the priest involved. You have felt so grieved by this it's comical. We didn't kill him, he's still alive somewhere I can assure you. I actually laughed reading this because it's just a message board and you are taking this so seriously over nothing.
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    « Reply #9 on: July 03, 2007, 10:37:42 PM »
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  • I am scorned.  You laughed.  Out of a man's mouth comes the uncleanness in his heart.  There is much contempt coming from your mouth.  Whatsoever you do to the least of my brothers, that you do unto Me.
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    « Reply #10 on: July 04, 2007, 03:12:27 AM »
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    I am scorned.  You laughed.  Out of a man's mouth comes the uncleanness in his heart.  There is much contempt coming from your mouth.  Whatsoever you do to the least of my brothers, that you do unto Me.


    I'm laughing because the medium shouldn't permit such cries of wrong doing to the extent you are continuing and complaining. This isn't the gulag, nor is it mandatory you post here. We are guests, when we don't like the host we leave or he tells us to leave. No one is forced to post or to read the posts, or to make posts.

    I stopped posting on several Catholic forums. I never announced it, I never complained, I realized I'm a guest and when I don't like the rules I leave. It's just that simple. I don't announce my private objection publicly ("For Chant's ears only"), nor would I find it gestapo like tactics to move a thread at the sole discretion of the guy who pays the bill for his own website, and then cry foul about others because of what he did and make pretentious comments about others in your wake of mourning over someone you don't even know for crying out loud.

    Seriously, do you realize the insanity of your attempt and then you pointing fingers at others as a guest, and they are kind enough to entertain your public grievance over something which should all be done by private messages and not on a message board? And then expect us to realize we are all vicious, prideful sinners who should pay recompense?

    You take this stuff too seriously, and people laugh when they see adults screaming when they lose a game of monopoly, or punch someone over saying "Hi", or going to a message board where no one knows each other hardly and cry the Lamentations of the Bible asking for God to strike down us sinners all because some guy's thread was moved and he got upset.  

    God bless,
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    « Reply #11 on: July 04, 2007, 08:29:54 AM »
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  • Well, isn't that the pot calling the kettle black.  Your thread on Vox' marriage ran for eight days and eight pages, but I'll bet that's different, isn't it?  

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    I'm laughing because the medium shouldn't permit such cries of wrong doing to the extent you are continuing and complaining.


    I haven't even begun to catch up to your record, so that bologna won't fly.  I'm sure you would like me to shut up, for the same reason Vox wanted you to shut up.  Too bad for you you don't have the button.

    I see you didn't even try to explain away the scorned part.  I gather you couldn't come up with anything slightly mitigating for that, and you might as well have left the laughing alone, too, because it rings as hollow as your heart.  Your post above spoke volumes about you, and stands as your witness.

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    I'm laughing because the medium shouldn't permit such cries of wrong doing to the extent you are continuing and complaining.


    Oh, don't you?  Over two forums you did.  If you don't like something you leave.  You leave if they kick you off.

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    Get your facts straight.  I never complained about moving the thread, nor blamed it on others.  I'm the one who suggested it be moved.  You like to call others irrational.  How rational is it to say people did things they didn't, like getting upset about moving threads or taking over the whole forum?  And what about the GREAT priest who turned out to be mediocre.  Could it be you tweak the truth somewhat?

    I realize the insanity of your attempt to sneer me into silence.  I realize the futility of your attempt to deny guilt in this matter.  I realize your flight from the reality of your misbehvior, even though it is here in black and white.  But, no, I don't realize the insanity of my attempt (?).  

    What, you're a guest now and therefore exempt from accusation?  You didn't use that expression when you rode your high horse about Vox.  Or when you blew the Fr. Berry thing all out of proportion, accused Stephanos of hi jacking the forum, etc, etc.  I do realize that Jesus told a story about an old woman who wouldn't shut up until the judge gave her justice.  I intend to follow in her footsteps.  

    Just keep talking, Mike.  You are far better at convicting yourself than I am.  
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    « Reply #12 on: July 04, 2007, 08:50:50 PM »
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    Well, isn't that the pot calling the kettle black.  Your thread on Vox' marriage ran for eight days and eight pages, but I'll bet that's different, isn't it?  


    Yah, just a little. This was a public scandal that could influence people. Yours complaint is about a guy whose thread was moved to a different forum.

    If I thought someone's writings could deeply demoralize someone and they had influence I should and would say something. This isn't the case. I wouldn't have started 2 threads about it, and then interjected in 2 others all pertaining to this as well.

    I'm not trying to convince you, more than I'm trying to have you calm down. This isn't a big deal. Such a matter causes no one to go to Hell or influence others to go to Hell.
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    « Reply #13 on: July 04, 2007, 09:27:58 PM »
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  • The COMPLAINT may be about a "guy" whose thread was moved. But the COMPLAINING has not been about the moving of a guy's thread. The COMPLAINING has been about false charges of calumny and hijacking against a fellow member of a community, and exaggerated charges of carelessness as to his trusting and quoting certain websites.

    It has already been stated that no fault is found with the moving of posts. It seems like a diversionary lawyer's trick to refer at this point to complaints about a guy whose thread was moved.

    There is a guy. This guy has a name, by the way, and it was bandied about freely enough when he was being mocked and excoriated. Why not use it here and now? Because calling him a guy, some guy, makes him seem negligible, and makes those who care about justice in his case look melodramatic and silly? Why wasn't he called a guy when in turn a GUY might have said, "Look guy, I know you mean well, but you're all wet about Fr Berry?" Why wasn't THAT exchange placed and kept on a down-to-earth guy-to-guy level?

    But no. We had to hear all about the alleged calumnies and thefts of a certain member with a certain Christian name: now that he is being defended we hear about some "guy." He should have been thought of by his accusers as just this guy BEFORE. They should have written in here, "Okay, it's not a question of a thief or a liar or a slanderer of the Great Ones of Old. It's just some GUY who is cutting and pasting carelessly and trusting his seddie sources too much."

    People who make serious accusations are obliged to take what follows from their accusations seriously.

    There is a guy. His thread was moved. There are complaints that have to do with that guy. But the complaints are NOT about the moving of his thread.

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    « Reply #14 on: July 04, 2007, 09:48:56 PM »
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  • Well, Cletus, you've hit the nail on the head (that the moving of the thread was not the issue).  I would be happily surprised if the point was taken, though, given that it covers a multitude of their sins.  It's much too handy to give up without a struggle.  I was glad to see you present Stephanos as a person and fight the dehumanizing of him which was going on.

    I suppose Mike, that it was in the spirit of calming me down that you declared me "scorned".  Must be some avante guarde therapy which works now even though in ages past it ranked high on the list of insults and put downs.  As for laughing at me, Jesus said that those who laugh now will weep later.  I believe Him.

    I feel the need to inform you that the things that are said and done on this forum are just as public as those on FE.  And that your behavior and John's was just as scandalous, and just as likely to see you in hell as Vox' and QUD's.  Jesus frowned mightily on the deliberate hurting of people, and bearing false witness is definitely a mortal sin.  

    No, you are not innocent, obviously you are not repentent, and I am not going to shut up to suit you.
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