"Love thy neighbor as thyself" ... thinking along those lines I feel we all should love ourselves in the sense that we should take care of our health and safety, make sure we have what we need food, clothing, and shelter.
I thank God for He gave me good parents, gave me a loving husband,(rest his soul) children that take care of me now.
However having said all that, I often take a review of my life, (something that comes with growing old) and although I do not want to live it again, (I had a happy life) but I do regret many times I have offended God, regret with tears. Yet, knowing with all my heart He has forgiven me. Because of that love, I love myself, knowing also I did not deserve His mercy.
I suppose I do love myself in the sense that I want so much to persevere and not lose my soul.
We must get to the point where we love our neighbors that much, as we do not want them to lose their soul, or we should not wish even our enemies to lose their souls.
Do I wish I was someone else, as you stated the answer is NO. I love being a woman. Tradhican in spite of what you think of women.