Traditional Catholic Guy have you considered visiting more rural Mass centers? I think your view is a bit exaggerated, nonetheless probably seems very real to you if that's all you've seen. If you were to visit a rural center, you may find a very different story regarding white collar/vs blue collar. I wish they were not at odds and could appreciate each other but real life being what it is, maybe you simply need to see other places where the men are manual laborers and the women and children appreciate their blood, sweat and tears. They are out there in abundance, you probably just aren't getting out enough.