Author Topic: Fisheaters Forum: Quis and Vox are Divorcing (Read 15715 times)

Cognorati001 · « **on:** July 22, 2011, 11:18:34 AM »

Quis and Vox -- the two owners of FE -- are divorcing. I feel sorry for their situation but believe it will be best for both of them. I hope Quis' sons maintain contact with their birth mother and are raised by both birth parents.

They've announced it on the forum but there was profanity in the thread (Quis also acknowledged the nature of their relationship). It is in the "Pig Roast" subforum.

Moderator: Who said anything about kids? Intentionally or unintentionally, this post could be the start of rumors that Vox and Quis have had children together -- which simply isn't true. You have to be careful how you say things, not just "what you meant to say".

I've probably "known" them longer than you, even though you'd be surprised to hear that I was once a member there.

s2srea · « **Reply #1 on:** July 22, 2011, 11:24:28 AM »

This is no one's business and should not be posted on Cathinfo. I don't know if they decided to post on FE's forum, but please remove this thread.

Cognorati001 · « **Reply #2 on:** July 22, 2011, 11:33:08 AM »

I'm sorry that you were offended but they spoke openly of the nature of their relationship and others have made public comments -- they are public people. It's relevant for people to understand what the nature of their relationship was in light of them running a "traditional Catholic" forum.

Elizabeth · « **Reply #3 on:** July 22, 2011, 11:35:55 AM »

It still is not nice to kick someone when he is down. The man just came from the hospital.

Someone1776 · « **Reply #4 on:** July 22, 2011, 11:38:30 AM »

We people, including myself, at Fish Eaters haven't really helped them much for we have been engaging in rumor mongering.

You guys can show yourselves the better board you claim to be by not doing so and instead just praying for them.

s2srea · « **Reply #5 on:** July 22, 2011, 11:39:37 AM »

Cognorati001- I wasn't necessarily offended. I just don't think its the wisest thing to place a thread about that here, that's all my friend. No hard feelings.

MaterDominici · « **Reply #6 on:** July 22, 2011, 11:53:27 AM »

I think the fact that we've said here for years that a public scandal requires some public action to rectify suggests that if indeed such is happening, a mention here would not be inappropriate. But, the OP just opens this up for more rumors by adding information about kids, etc.

Continued prayers for Quis & Vox

Jaynek · « **Reply #7 on:** July 22, 2011, 12:00:41 PM »

As well as praying for Quis and Vox, please pray for the Fish Eaters forum. We are all affected by this to some extent.

TheHarlequinKing · « **Reply #8 on:** July 22, 2011, 12:23:10 PM »

Turns out I got banned over that little thread, LOL, but on this point, I agree that prayers are better than discussion.

Someone1776 · « **Reply #9 on:** July 22, 2011, 12:35:31 PM »

Your never ending knowledge of deacons will be missed

spouse of Jesus · « **Reply #10 on:** July 22, 2011, 12:41:54 PM »

But they were madly in love. I saw Quis' profile and it was so full of praise for Vox.
If you think they were in the wrong path or in mortal sin then, you must feel happy that they are rescued. Just as you feel happy when a prisoner is set free or a sick man gets healed. I think God loved them very much to save them in time, not everybody is that fortunate.
We need also to pray for people like Francis Mary Stone and any other person (including ourselves) who is enchained by sinful attachments or affections.

Matthew · « **Reply #11 on:** July 22, 2011, 01:13:55 PM »

Quote from: spouse of Jesus

But they were madly in love. I saw Quis' profile and it was so full of praise for Vox.
If you think they were in the wrong path or in mortal sin then, you must feel happy that they are rescued. Just as you feel happy when a prisoner is set free or a sick man gets healed. I think God loved them very much to save them in time, not everybody is that fortunate.
We need also to pray for people like Francis Mary Stone and any other person (including ourselves) who is enchained by sinful attachments or affections.

You're on the right track, Spouse, but you're missing one element --

We shouldn't kill the fatted calf just yet, because it doesn't look like anyone's repented of anything thus far.

But yes, looking at it from a spiritual perspective it's a good development -- even though the battle is far from over.

TheHarlequinKing · « **Reply #12 on:** July 22, 2011, 01:18:16 PM »

Quote from: Someone1776

Your never ending knowledge of deacons will be missed

Yes! But I can share my knowledge of deacons here.

Cognorati001 · « **Reply #13 on:** July 22, 2011, 01:28:11 PM »

Quote from: Elizabeth

It still is not nice to kick someone when he is down. The man just came from the hospital.

I'm actually not trying to kick the person -- I think they've actually made a better choice, in light of things. I felt that people should know because one must alter how one speaks about their relationship, from this point forward.

Also, I've had a lot of life experiences and known all kinds of people -- one thing that is the same all over the world is that people will do anything to be loved and accepted. The two people involved are just human in that respect, so I'm not judging them but feel sad for their situation.

Re: Moderator

I didn't mean to imply that they had children together. I meant something different.

Someone1776 · « **Reply #14 on:** July 22, 2011, 01:40:39 PM »

Quote from: TheHarlequinKing

Quote from: Someone1776
Your never ending knowledge of deacons will be missed

Yes! But I can share my knowledge of deacons here.

Yeah, but I will get myself banned here.