I've actually known two Traditional Catholic couples, where the wife initiated divorce proceedings, and then used the fact that the father had spanked his children for allegations of "abuse" ... as leverage in the proceedings (even though they THEMSELVES had also spanked the children).  And in a divorce proceeding, since it's not a criminal proceeding, the allegation sticks, because it's entirely at the discretion of the (usually feminist female) judge.  They're deliberately trying to strip fathers of their authority over their family.

So now people should be arrested based on what they look like?  Looks can be very deceiving.  To me, he looks like he could just be a guy who wants to teach discipline to his sons.  What's wrong with that?

Looks alone aren't enough to convict and he's only been arrested, but if the article can be taken literally when it stated he forced his kids to "eat soap" instead of merely placing it in their mouths for a fixed amount of time without swallowing, coupled with the other signs of extreme punishments. 30 minutes of pushups only for adults, let alone kids, who presumably haven't built up to that level of fitness is a guaranteed muscle pull if not worse and I'd be interested to see upon further investigation if these kids have long term damage to their growing bodies as a result of these kinds of outlandishly protracted physical "exercises" which are really just instruments of torture. So yeah, I think they're definitely onto something with this guy and no, any reasonable human being wouldn't go to those absurd lengths to discipline their children.

I can tell he's not that bright, so maybe he has that going for him as a defense. Maybe he'll beat the rap.

A woman’s instinct shouldn’t be discredited because she’s a woman. I wouldn’t punish my kids to the extent of forcing them to actually eat soap, or punching them. That’s not parenting, that’s bullying. It’s also a huge difference then what the Bible would condone. Human dignity is a thing, and I’d you treat a child without such they don’t turn out the way you. 

1)push ups is a good punishment, but excessive over 30 minutes at that age.

2) placing soap in mouth is fine. My daughter had it done yesterday. Forcing to eat it is not.

3) spanking is fine, but should it leave bruises. Bruises are different from red marks.

4) having someone kneel as a punishment isn’t wrong, but age should be taken into account. Obviously adding rice to kneel it would be the wrong add in. 

Punishment shouldn’t be out of anger, but love.

As for the details about this story --

First of all, very few people could do push-ups for 30 minutes straight without breaks.  At some point you reach simple "muscle failure" and simply can't do it anymore.  Ask anyone who's done weight training at the gym.  You do a certain number repetitions, and then you reach muscle failure.  If you go hard enough, you can barely lift the empty bar anymore.  No amount of will-power can make you do another rep.  And there's no lasting damage from reaching muscle failure.  That can cause the body to build more muscle for next time out.  There are many fitness tests out there that make you do pushups to failure (how many can you do in a row?)  This resourceful father was not only disciplining his boys, but developing fitness and stamina.  I've known coaches (even to this day) who run their kids so hard they're almost throwing up.  What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, as the saying goes.

Leaning against the wall with your forehead ... not that big of a deal.  Just a more uncomfortable variant on standing in the corner.  That's the entire point of punishment as a deterrent ... it SHOULD hurt some and be uncomfortable.  If it doesn't, it's no deterrent at all.

Red mark on the chest?  Big deal.  No indication of it having turned black and blue (some tissue damage).  You can get redness, with sensitive skin, from just a little push.  If he had hauled off on the kid with his full might, the kid would have been hurt more than that.  I had a teacher who used to regularly punch boys in the arm in class, hard enough that it hurt.  But none of us minded.  We actually felt like big guys when he did that.  We liked it.  It's like that old practice when kids used to get paddled, where the kid was supposed to respond:  "Thank you, sir, may I have another?"  It teaches you to take punishment like a man, with toughness, and while maintaining respect.  Ladies do not understand this aspect of boys at all.  Women personalize everything, whereas boys do NOT.  Boys can get into a fist-fight and then go out an eat ice cream together five minutes later without any hard feelings.  That's why the discipline of boys should be done by their fathers.  Pax also made this point well in his post.  At the same, time, however, I do feel that fathers should not administer corporal punishment to their girls (that should be left to their wives).  Not that they have no right to; I just think it best not to ... to instill in them the notion that men should treat ladies with respect.

In the good old days, boys used to brag about taking a licking from their dad, almost as if it were a badge of honor, a testament to their toughness.  They didn't wallow in effeminate "victimhood".  Women/girls on the other hand, take it personally, and it's an emotional thing for them.  But as long as the boy realizes that the father (or coach or other male authority figure) is doing it for their good, and with love, rather than just losing control ... the boy will actually RESPECT the toughness.  Now these effeminate millennials all wallow in self-pity and victimhood.  So this type of thing is also another chapter in the societal wussification of boys and men ... at the insistence of women.  That's why boys who are raised by single mothers or "sensitive" fathers, turn into effeminate wussies.

Eating soap (presumably for bad language or talking back).  How much soap was forced to be ingested?  Five bars or just a relatively-small shaving.  Did this "eating" mean that they were forced to actually swallow and ingest it?  Even then, how much?

Most of this sounds like a total crock.  Burns, broken bones, open wounds, lots of black-and-blue marks, enough soap eaten (of the right kind) to cause poisoning.  Sure, that's abuse.  But what's described here is a joke.

Then someone asked:  Who turned the guy in?  Was it a wife who doesn't like him using it for leverage in a planned divorce (as she's having an affair)?  I actually know a couple women who did exactly that.  Was it the kids?  Did they call the cops?  Did they report him at their school?  Or did the kids just talk at school and get overheard by some busy-body teacher.  Maybe the boys didn't even mind but were almost bragging about it to their friends.  "Yeah, I got busted [doing this or that], and my dad made me do pushups for half an hour."  Have we turned this into a child- and female- run police state?  I've actually heard of kids threatening their parents with calling the cops if they tried to spank them ... completely undermining the parents' ability to discipline them.

At a first glance, of course it's insane to arrest a father for making his kids do push-ups as punishment. That's an excellent punishment - it discourages the behaviour while also making them stronger. But combined with the other details, like the punch and the soap-eating, it makes me wonder what the more specific details are. I don't think anyone bar maybe Bruce Lee types are going to be able to do push-ups 30 minutes non-stop, the kids probably would've reached failure after only a couple minutes. So the question is did he just make them continue on as soon as they were able to again, or did he punish them whenever they hit failure(which they would've done many, many times in a 30 min period) and/or force them to continue on to excess at risk of injury? 

But anyway, it's sort of irrelevant. While I definitely agree that there's a slippery slope and that we should avoid ceding any ground(for an example of where that leads us, police have come and reprimanded parents for leaving their children walk unaccompanied around GATED neighbourhoods 20 feet from their house - ridiculous!), I don't know if this specific case is an example of that. Hitting an older boy isn't in-and-of itself abuse, but the location and nature of it(punch to the chest) makes it sound more like it came from anger than from discipline. That combined with the soap-eating and the wildly excessive length of the pushups makes me think this father was a bit of a wacko, and that was probably apparent to the police investigating the case. The parts the media choose to emphasise may not be the same as the main issues brought up in the police investigation, which would have undoubtedly included some sort of character evaluation. 

Anyway, those are just my 2 cents. Regardless, I do appreciate and agree with your bringing this up. It's important we pay attention to this kind of stuff, because the slippery slope is very, very real and we should always be on the watch for it. Even in cases like this where it's not so clear-cut, in fact these are the MOST important cases to be keeping a watch on. Because that's how they get approval for setting a precedent that they can then extended ad absurdum.

1.  No one, not even a bodybuilder can do push-ups for 30 straight minutes.  So the article is an exaggeration.

2.  Eating soap isn’t gonna kill anyone, unless you believe it’ll turn you blind like the “Christmas Story” movie.  At worst, it’s a laxative, haha.  

3.  Spanking doesn’t leave marks.  If it does, it’s no longer a spanking but a beating.  I agree with the earlier poster - my Dad had to use the belt on me only like 2x and I got the point.  I never crossed the line again.  Same thing for spankings.  

It used to be common in households up until the 80s to spank, make kids taste soap, and other physical punishments....most of which were handed out by MOMS.

(One lady told me her Father would make his children hold books with outstretched arms for 5 minutes at a time, til their arms were worn out.  They got the hint).

America is now a bunch of pansies.  Why do you think ѕυιcιdє rates are through the roof, there are counselors/police at schools and people are given “mental health” days off?  Because people are mentally weak and give up too easily.  (This is what the elites/joos want...people who won’t/can’t fight back and/or organize to resist tyranny, both spiritual and natural).

1.  No one, not even a bodybuilder can do push-ups for 30 straight minutes.  So the article is an exaggeration.

 
Indeed, a person would reach simple "muscle failure" before any harm would happen to him.