Good quote, Myrna.
I don't know if this is a change of dogma due to the Vatican II council...
The problem is that you are on a website where about 99% of the members do not believe that it is possible for Vatican II to
change a dogma.
It's not that we don't understand you. Traditional Catholics all walked that mile and made that decision long ago. Why would we need to go over that ground again?
Some, maybe all, novus ordo people do not really believe in Hell in any kind of substantial way. The first thing you read about in their obituary is how wonderful that their dear loved one is now in arms of Jesus.
So how hard is it to avoid Hell? Almost no one there except Hitler and Nero? 50/50? Narrow is the way and few are those that enter in?