You get a ring and then arrange for the special time and place which she will always treasure, she will tell your children how it happened.
Sometimes there are heirloom rings so you use a nice ring box from a Jєωeler's to present it.
Thanks Elizabeth. So you don't think its too much of an issue if she does not choose the design?
My in-law got a huge diamond ring at a pawn shop, worth many more thousands at a Jєωeler's, for about $500. :jumping2: Something like that you would have blessed by the priest before presenting it in the little velvet box we love so much.
And you would never mention the fact that it did not cost $8,000.00 originally, because it is not the price tag that matters. Good Jєωelers will admit that the value and beauty is highly subjective, due to the emotions of wedding engagements.
You have to know the correct size. There is a real risk with getting the size changed and Jєωelers stealing the good gem and replacing it with a fake or one of lesser value.
I think the idea of the lady choosing her own engagement ring is one of those modern feminist things? I am not sure. Check out Emily Post (very WASP but a safe guide for etiquette compared to modern immodest wedding gowns and smashing cake into each other's faces). I was taught that a lady would never discuss money, but who knows, my family was "colorful" and I was not immune from the modern feminist social engineers.
So, how do you get the correct ring size on the sly? Maybe google will tell you.