If a member (or post) is breaking actual CathInfo rules, including Catholic rules of decency/morality, then use the "Report to Moderator" link found at the bottom of every post.
But for members or posts who fall short of that -- PLEASE just ignore it, and mind your own business! Thank you.
Every single post should be at one of those two extremes -- you report it to the Moderator as being an actual violation, or you enjoy (or at least ignore) the post. 100% of posts should fit into one of those TWO categories.
My point, in short is:
B*tching on the forum about members and/or posts is a middle-ground (between REPORTING TO MODERATOR and IGNORING IT) that shouldn't exist.
I don't need a hundred self-appointed "helpers" policing my forum. If you want to help me police, please use the aforementioned link that the software provides, and then let me do my job. Thank you.