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Offline love alabama

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« on: August 02, 2011, 02:51:03 PM »
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  • how does a person with OCD  discern whether his desire to enter the religious life is truly genuine or an impulse to please his parents?

      What if he is praying and cannot tell whether he has a vocation or not due to his tendency of having impulsive obsessions?


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    « Reply #1 on: August 02, 2011, 03:07:55 PM »
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  • If the consideration of a religious vocation is to a Novus Ordo or conciliar order, it is probably a prompting of the Enemy.

    For any reputable religious order (the CMRI sisters, for example) the time between entering as a postulant (where the candidate takes no vows) through various stages of temporary vows until the candidate takes final vows can be 6 to 10 years and even longer in some cases.  As a result, it would be virtually impossible for someone who thinks she has some sort of "obsessive" or "compulsive" disorder to rashly enter into the religous life.  The order will help in the discernment process.

    The bottom line is that one does not know before exploring a religious vocation if she truly has a religous vocation.  (By the way, though I wrote this assuming the question is about a girl, the same would apply for a boy.  I was just thinking more about the convent as my eldest daughter will be entering the convent as a postulant later this month.)


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    « Reply #2 on: August 02, 2011, 03:32:15 PM »
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  • Quote from: love alabama
    how does a person with OCD  discern whether his desire to enter the religious life is truly genuine or an impulse to please his parents?


    The best way to never figure anything out is to keep it all inside.  Nothing ventured, nothing gained!

    FWIW, playing solo with such ideas is the mental equivalent of getting lost in a really bad neighborhood: one's own head.

    If we want to know the score on these questions, we must TAKE ACTION -- i.e., talk with a trustworthy priest, abbot, mother superior, etc.
    "Fear God, and keep His commandments: for this is all man."