Dear "Jack":
I will accept, at face value, your expressions of sincerity. You are among a number of well-intended, deeply pietistic folks I've met over the years. Folks with all sorts of manifest emotionality, overflowing with sincerity. And, up to a certain point, that really can be commendable, within due limits.
I will also accept, at face value, that some good soul might be the recipient of a visit from the Great Beyond at any given moment - in theory.
So, yes, you or your friend or whomever might have "seen something." And that is very nice. If it actually happens to be a bona fide private revelation, that's very nice, too.
However, such matters are quite delicate, as I believe you will agree.
And, unfortunately, under the practices of the Church, not a one of us here, whether or not we think you are correct in your claim and your interpretation, can do one thing about it.
We cannot afirm it. We cannot deny it. We can, simply, do nothing that makes a wit of difference in the matter.
So, under the practices of the Church, if you wish to pursue the matter, you are in the position of actually needing to get qualified, official assistance. Only the local bishop has authority to investigate claims such as you make and to either promulgate them for private consideration as worthy of pious belief and in no way contradicting the teachings of the Church, or to ask any and all involved to simply drop the matter.
St. Paul himself did so. As did St. Joan of Arc. And St. Bernadette. And Bl. Jacinta and Bl. Francisco Marto of Fatima.