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Offline MaterDominici

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Re: Croix de Fer has been banned
« Reply #40 on: July 06, 2018, 10:40:08 PM »
Re-read what I said...
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Some women choose to stay with a spouse where she has legitimate grounds for annulment.
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In this regard, it is her choice, since the paperwork must first be filed...
If a person has serious reason to believe they're not actually married to the person they're living with, I don't think doing nothing is an option. They need to either ask the Church to regularize their situation or seek the declaration of annulment.

Re: Croix de Fer has been banned
« Reply #41 on: July 06, 2018, 10:47:52 PM »
No need to be snappy, TxTrad! I did read what you said, and I re-read it before posting! What you said needed to be corrected to avoid confusion.
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Of course "some women choose to stay with a spouse where she has legitimate grounds for annulment" I don't dispute that. Or she may already have left him before petitioning for an annulment.
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But annulment is not a matter of choice for the woman. The woman has not the right to determine whether she has the grounds for annulment. You are confusing the right to apply for annulment with the right to separate, which is not contested if the relationship is untenable.  


Offline MaterDominici

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Re: Croix de Fer has been banned
« Reply #42 on: July 06, 2018, 11:07:03 PM »
My anti-feminist posts were getting down-voted too, as were those of other women.  I think that this time it is about what we are saying, not how we say it.
A little of both. The "what" gets you a few down votes, but the "how" makes the difference between 3 down votes vs. 7 or more!

Offline Pax Vobis

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Re: Croix de Fer has been banned
« Reply #43 on: July 07, 2018, 12:05:04 AM »

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but the "how" makes the difference between 3 down votes vs. 7 or more!
Because women were taking things personally and being overly emotional.

Offline MaterDominici

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Re: Croix de Fer has been banned
« Reply #44 on: July 07, 2018, 12:07:07 AM »
Because women were taking things personally and being overly emotional.
Yup, that right there... 7 or more.  ;)