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Offline TxTrad

Re: Croix de Fer has been banned
« Reply #35 on: July 06, 2018, 05:55:12 PM »
Quote from: Pax Vobis on July 06, 2018, 12:35:22 PM
If the young lady is trustworthy and pious, then why does she care about signing a docuмent that will never affect her?
If the young man is pious and trustworthy, why does he need something that will never affect him?
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Re: Croix de Fer has been banned
« Reply #36 on: July 06, 2018, 05:58:02 PM »
Quote from: Pax Vobis on July 06, 2018, 12:52:57 PM
Maybe partially, but not totally.  I'd rather have an agreement than not.
Your argument is one based on extremes.  "Well, the safety features of a car don't work 100% of the time, and even if you had airbags, and steel framing, anti-lock brakes and impact-resistant engineering, you could still die, so you might as well save $ and buy a crappy car because safety features are a waste."  Just because something isn't full-proof doesn't mean it's worthless.
The only thing fool-proof is that a fool not get married.
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Offline TxTrad

Re: Croix de Fer has been banned
« Reply #37 on: July 06, 2018, 08:28:09 PM »
Quote from: Vintagewife3 on July 06, 2018, 12:43:27 PM
Isn’t adultry a reason to get a divorce in the Church’s eyes? Or well, God’s eyes.
There is NO "reason to get a divorce".
There ARE reasons where separation is allowed (matter of choice), and also reasons where annulment is allowed (again, matter of choice).  While this may seem minor , it is not.  Some women choose to stay with a spouse where she has legitimate grounds for separation or annulment.  The decision is her choice.
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Offline Nadir

Re: Croix de Fer has been banned
« Reply #38 on: July 06, 2018, 09:01:14 PM »
Quote from: TxTrad on July 06, 2018, 08:28:09 PM
There is NO "reason to get a divorce".
There ARE reasons where separation is allowed (matter of choice), and also reasons where annulment is allowed (again, matter of choice).  While this may seem minor , it is not.  Some women choose to stay with a spouse where she has legitimate grounds for separation or annulment.  The decision is her choice.
No, annulment is not a matter of choice. Annulment is when there is no marriage. The decision is not hers to make. It is for the Church to decide.
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Offline TxTrad

Re: Croix de Fer has been banned
« Reply #39 on: July 06, 2018, 10:17:52 PM »
Quote from: Nadir on July 06, 2018, 09:01:14 PM
No, annulment is not a matter of choice. Annulment is when there is no marriage. The decision is not hers to make. It is for the Church to decide.
Re-read what I said...
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Some women choose to stay with a spouse where she has legitimate grounds for annulment.
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In this regard, it is her choice, since the paperwork must first be filed...
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